That's pretty amazing!
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I'm a heterosexual male and I'm the same way. I had zero romantic/flirty/dating experience in my teens (well, I guess until I was a couple months short of 20). I didn't even have any girl friends in my teens. When I made my first girl friend my freshman year of college it was the first time I had ever felt…
Good luck!
I haven't had a ton of luck, but I also don't live in a particularly populous area. I like the question evaluation system they have. Basically, there are a bunch of questions you give your answer for, answers you will accept for it, and how important it is to you. After you answer quite a few of those the website…
I'm a guy on OKC so I don't really have this problem, but I saw someone else on here one time suggest not having a profile pic (but having an otherwise complete profile) and then just messaging the guys you are interested in and include a link to a couple pics in the message. That might help reduce the creeps or…
If you read GroupThink you might have seen some of my posts and know I'm in a similar situation to you, though I am a few years younger. I can very easily see myself reaching 26 without having had a girlfriend or kissing someone. Lately I've been trying the whole online dating thing, I made an OKC account and saw…
Initially I though drunkenness might have explained it too. But it was sent at 5 in the afternoon on a Thursday, so I'm not so sure.
Slightly lean forward and smile. That'll help make a good impression. I'm introverted too and I just try to power through those situations.
Sent someone a message on OKC a month ago. They didn't respond, I was like: "ok, cool". Then yesterday they send me a one line response that engages the message I sent her but doesn't actually give me anything I can respond with. She seems interesting based on her profile and I'd be down to talk, but this seems so…
You could just ask him if any of his feelings have changed. And that if they haven't you would appreciate a little more laid back behavior. Seems like you guys know each other well enough that talking about it wouldn't be awkward.
Learn an instrument, learn a new language, gardening, pick something (a show or band or something) that you already really like and become an expert on them. I do that last one. I get super obsessed with my favorite things and quickly read all the material on it/them and stuff. Not so much in an idolizing way, but…
At first I just thought maybe he was just a little thick, but then the "you're obviously a smart woman comment" makes him sound super creepy.
Getting married at 21 sounds odd to me, though lots of things sound odd to me, like people who like mayonnaise, wtf? The families I come from are the marry/kids late in life type of people, so 21 seems weird to me because of that. Hell, I'm 21 and haven't even kissed anyone before, and that won't be changing anytime…
SeaAnemone recommended that site in an open thread about a month ago. I've been cooking like crazy from it. So far I haven't found a bad recipe!
I made a double batch of this yesterday. I've got stew for the rest of the week now!
If you've ever read some of my posts you'll know I am a 21 year old guy who has no experience in these things, but here is my advice anyway. I would try being very upfront with him about it (not that you weren't already, it sounds like you did what should have been plenty). Tell him you didn't like it/appreciate it…
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Maybe this when the season comes around.
Well, I don't think we can entirely rule out the possibility that a large tornado swept through her area picking her and her house up and dumping them in the middle of munchkin land.
As I've said several other times, I certainly won't contact her any more than once more.