If you ask him “Well, how would that work?” the answer that respects your well-being and safety would suggest safe words, starting with something small, and what your boundaries are. If he answers that it would be ‘when the moment is right’, when he wanted to, or something along that bent then there is a huge issue.

I’m in the BDSM community and that’s definitely only something that should be said if both parties have expressed equal interest in it already. Since he sprang it on you and sex has been pretty vanilla so far I can see that being a big red flag. Not for sure, he may just not have tact but the most important thing in…

I mean, that depends on you and what you like in the bedroom. I know women whose panties would’ve been flooded after reading that. I also know women that would never talk to him again after reading that. He should’ve figured that out before going there. The fact that he didn’t is a little concerning. Follow your…

Something similiar happened to me, except the song was ‘Hey Jude’. I was in this outdoor cafe thing at the bottom of a slope in Vail (I was young, there on a family vacation). i was having hot cocoa and sneaking a cig and singing the song softly, and as I looked around, everyone was singing, too. INcluding a table of…

This happened to me last weekend, except at the bagel store, and the song was Brick House. Everyone, even those with mouths full of bagel, was singing it.

apron to throw pillow conversion?

I live in the Chicago metro area. In fact, I grew up one town over from Aurora, a suburb of Chicago! I’m pretty sure it’s the law that, when Bohemian Rhapsody comes on the radio, one must sing along and headbang. Headbanging is not required for drivers due to safety issues, but is mandatory for passengers.

“Life is short, and I want to be weird.”
This is new life mantra.

So it’s not about Trump?

LOUDER FOR THE FOLKS IN THE BACK! This look is not for you, duder. It is strictly for my whimsical 36 year old ass.

This grown-ass lady made herself a goddamn unicorn dress. And wore it to work.

I would jump onto a harpy bandwagon in a hot second. Fuck escapism, “evil shrieking bird-woman” is my current political attitude and I would like my aesthetic represented, thankyouverymuch

I’m waiting for a mythological trend I can get behind, like harpies. I want some harpy themed junk. None of this stupid fairy/mermaid crap.

I just want to be extra crystal clear: this person is NOT my friend! Thanks!

Cheryl Wischhover nails the trend’s “infantilizing” tendency for Racked: “Reconciling being a grown-ass lady who pays rent and buys her own condoms while also enjoying wearing holographic lip gloss that looks like unicorn tears can be tricky, but who doesn’t want to be recognized as magical, I guess?”

Being a dog is also pretty great. Being a child is like being a super smart dog for all the freedom and appreciation you have of the world at that age.

Speak for yourself, adulthood is awesome. Last weekend I got drink and ate a McChicken in bed and nobody could tell me not to.

I like how this one can really go either way! “Oh you had long summer vacations? That must have been so nice not to have to collect lentils to keep your 23 siblings from starving!” Or “You’re willing to turn down a raise? Must be nice, daddy warbucks!”

I’m here for the classic Jez competition of Who Is From The Lowest Socioeconomic Tier and How All You Other Elitists Will Never Understand Me.