The real problem I think is that kids aren't learning this shit in school. Like, elementary school.

That's what I always think! These public apologies are perfect forums for educating people who aren't interested or informed about this shit, but instead they just say sorry and people keep having racist frat parties and stuff. Why oh why!

Maybe I wish that instead of people just saying that they 'learned a lesson' they would say what they learned! Jezzies all obviously know what the lessons-to-be-learned are, but maybe people reading her interviews don't entirely understand what the problem is and instead of being able to read a short quip from a…

THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING!!! he spent wayyyyyy too much time talking about when she was going to move to iowa and not enough energy listening to her tell him that she was into him and wanted to make it work! but he doesn't want to work, he wants to just keep doing his life but also have a woman in his house and food…

I'm watching the episode now and I feel like the conversation she tried to have with him in the hotel room WAS her giving him encouragement! But they spent wayyyy too much time talking about when she was going to be ready to move to Iowa and not the more important thing, which was her saying that she was falling in…

I'm watching the episode now and I feel like the conversation she tried to have with him in the hotel room WAS her giving him encouragement! But they spent wayyyy too much time talking about when she was going to be ready to move to Iowa and not the more important thing, which was her saying that she was falling in…

i wonder if you could get on with an alter-ego? like, change your name and hair and adopt a weird personality trait and give yourself a backstory and say you have a family of friends in your major city life and bring the dude on the hometown date there?

I feel like Whitney is the sort of person though who can just get super duper into everything! You know that she could totally see herself driving that truck that catches the corn and knitting in that big windowed sitting room while kids run around and fighting with those female family members and be super duper into…

I also was feeling really bad for Whitney - how obvious it is to all of us that he's in love with Becca. I mean, they voice-covered his terrible words like 'I can see myself with both of them' while we were watching them in the limos driving to the Pier 1, which, like, come on, he must have decided on Whitney during…

YES! He was too stupid to realize how easy it would have been to make things work with Becca. And she didn't know how to explain to his big dumb head that she was into him and wanted to do this, but wanted to like date and not commit to an essentially blind marriage. Whitney and Chris both just want to be married and…

his women family and whitney seem like super similar people though, that they're alllllllll so type-a that they're gonna be in each others faces all the freaking time. but probably in a lovable family way, not in a hell forever way.

I loved the conversation she tried to have with him in the hotel room, what normal stuff she said! If he had been a boring dude but not had such serious ties to a Place I could have seen him going with Becca and her making him a much cooler person.

ok i'm watching this episode finalllllllly and i am LOVING becca after this hotel room convo. he wants her but he's too dumb and uncreative to see how easy it would be to make it work with her. she needed to be like, 'ok if we lived in the same place i would be so committed to us but i wouldn't move in til we…

wake'n'bake what up yo!

and i'm sure that a lot of it has to do with the sorts of people who are seamlessly sharing the chores: people who know how to communicate with each other and know how to value the other's time and energy are also probably people who are better at keeping their interest in each other active and making time for sex and…

i'm kinda surprised though! i mean, i know she's had media kerfuffles forever now but she just keeps going and going and going and i kinda figured this one would be the same. am not sad, not at all.

ewwwwww

And doesn't the Salvation Army turn away gay and transgender people from receiving aid and housing and stuff?

WOW this is basically just a combination of all my favorite words and things and people.

you know, for a party that complains so much about national debt and budget waste and all these things, they sure do spend a lot of time and what must add up to some SERIOUS cash pushing bills that will NEVER. BE. LAWS. i'm all for principled statements, but wasting the taxpayers money on vanity projects is supposed…