Yeah, RuPaul is pretty well known for his “Ew, women are iccky” views.

Sigh. THIS right here is why I think there are hard limits to cis men doing drag (be they gay or straight) and claiming it’s 100% ok and they are 100% respectful.

I had a roommate for a couple months who like totally fucked some chick in our shared bathroom, which happened to be right next to my bedroom, at like 4 am. I texted him and was like “yo, please keep your sexual escapades to your room, or if you’re going to be in the shower, at least not after midnight and before 8…

I once had a man ask if we could meet somewhere less busy so no one he knew saw him with me. When I asked him how I was ever supposed to respect myself after going out with a man embarrassed to be seen with me, he claimed that wasn’t what he met. He literally said the “so no one...” part. And I honestly believe he…

I get that you don’t think you were, but I want to be very clear about something - if a women says she would do something in self-defense against a sexual assault (or anything else, but especially this), and you take time out of your day to drop into the conversation to let her know that her action in defense of self w…

You’re a real asshole coming in here with that shit, you know that?

This whole back and forth epitomizes why I loathe the concept of forgiveness.

Are we all really taking the stance that unsolicited kissing/fondling of the breasts without prior consent would be okay if she was a confirmed adult? Because I’m over 40, and will punch you in the fucking face—if not lower.

Meanwhile so many of us have to LEARN that we are allowed to accept ourselves as we are, we have to LEARN that we shouldn’t have to lie to ourselves to fit into other people’s expectations, we have to LEARN that we are valid.

“Growth” and “change” in this context involve an understanding of how one’s past behavior and opinions have been harmful, and refuting them. I haven’t really seen anything like that yet from Mr. Hart.

Damn - why didn’t I think of that? If he’s tweeted about it I’ve missed it.

I’m thinking about the muggle-born. They would have spent their childhoods using outhouses or chamber pots or whatever in the conventional way, and then they go to this fancy magic boarding school and find out they’re just supposed to piss on themselves? 

If pornography is the new sex education maybe conservatives should not have opposed sex education in schools for so long.

Also of note: his first broadcasted comedy show has an ENTIRE segment on how he doesn’t want a gay son. It’s gross.

When did he apologize though? Can you link the statement or article in which he apologized for this before it was brought up again in December? Because he doesn’t apologize in that Rolling stone article from 2015. In fact, he says the only reason he doesn’t tell the joke anymore isn’t because it’s not funny or it’s…

This is complete BS. Kevin Hart got a PR favor from Ellen, a white woman who is a safe gay for mainstream audiences. He didn’t go to a black or brown LGBTQ person to have an actual conversation about his “growth” because the conversation would have been too hard. That would have been some sort of outreach to a…

I’ve always identified as bi/queer but I’m in my first actual relationship with another woman. I’ve had the privilege of moving through the world as a ‘passing straight white woman’ so I’ve never really had to deal directly with homophobia. I’ve always been sensitive to it but now that I’m in a same sex relationship,…

I felt like Salt Fat Acid Heat was the tonal opposite of Ugly Delicious. So many more women. She’s such a gracious guide, and let the foods, local cooks, and locations speak for themselves so much.

SHE IS THE BEST AND I LOVE HER.

Anonymous released Hilary’s emails but not Trump’s tax returns, which says all you need to know about Anonymous. Also every member of Anonymous I’ve met has been a middle aged white man who bragged about being a member, which is like, too ironic to even laugh at.