ME TOO!!!!

Inspirativ, erstaunlich, schoen

Led Zeppelin, The Labyrinth, and tons of postcards, original paintings, and artwork from friends and family...I'm cool, right?

Haha, thanks.

Yes, you hit the nail on the head. I'm not saying my words very well today, but you said it perfectly. Eloise is completely correct in that identifying it takes the power away from what the gas-lighter has been doing, but what you said, and what I meant to say was that no amount of pointing it out to them will make…

Yep.

Very well said.

Okay. I'm glad that sometimes that works. In my experience it hasn't. I don't want to argue, I was just making a comment about the frustrating experience of gas lighting.

It's definitely worth a try. But usually the type of person who will gaslight another person is not going to listen to sense or logic about what they have been doing.

Oh god, yeah, what about for those of us for whom it is difficult to bring to a climax? Then the choices I feel presented with are:

Sweetest comment about fake orgasms ever. Tip of the hat, Sir.

....Aaron Paul? No? Okay... :(

Ah, good ole gaslighting. My favorite male tactic against women. Aggravating enough to set your teeth on edge, and yet impossible to argue against—the only solution is to just...walk away.

My hair is waist length, so I just do the following:

Yeah, I get that. Very true :)

I totes got the memo. See below/above comments. :)

Yeah. I guess the tone was awkward and I fell into the trap. It's funny though, because I used to have a boss who complained all the time about having no money, and how the bakery needed to be earning more, and she would hike up the prices, and she would never give us raises (and we made serious bullshit pay-serious…

Dire straits indeed my friend.

Ugh, I don't care. My point was that I felt that they didn't actually really care about this case at all. Generally, after a long work day, I don't even have the energy to then go out bowling or whatever, then again what I do is physical work, so maybe it's different. I feel like with such a huge decision to make,…

Fair enough.