Yes, you are. You can disagree violently and debate violently, but you can’t physically attack people.

Yeah, it’s only an HR issue if it violates the dress code. If someone takes a job in the type of environment that is this loose with the dress code and that is something that makes them uncomfortable, that’s on them. One single person doesn’t get to change the harmless aspects to of a company’s culture. I,…

look - i am not saying that you should go around at work not wearing shoes. all i am saying is - why is it such a big deal that you had to write to an advice column about it? confront the person or ignore it! it just shouldn’t be this big a deal. it’s just feet and they are not your feet and she isn’t shoving them in…

Because people that are grossed out by feet have to let everyone know about it because they’re the biggest fucking babies on the planet.

i don’t understand why the barefeet bother this person so much. they are not your feet, she isn’t putting her feet on you - just look away and think to yourself “what a gross asshole” and let it go.

I think this is a very fraught position for everyone. It feels like there is a real possibility of retrenchment of the bullshit idea that gay men are more likely to be child molesters or exploiters. And this would be via patriarchal-male displacement of their dissatisfaction with the idea that they can no longer…

Jebuz H. Christie those aren’t even pseudonym, people.

So as much as I have always been on the Bernie side of things here, I have to say this seems as much like an expose on the Democratic party as it is on Clinton, since it was their mismanagement and spinelessness that allowed for this in the first place.

Even reading the description, I thought: I doubt the Muslim girls sleep with a hijab on...?

Yeah, I yelled at the screen, “You found the ONE girl dressed as Siouxsie Sioux at this shit show of a party, and you follow the drunk bobblehead?!”

“Does not represent who we are/who I am” is the go-to response these days to someone saying something that very clearly represents who they are.

He might have groomed her, too. You don’t know what their relationship is like. Why is it so important for you to shift blame onto another woman?

I work in a marketing department for a beauty company. And I fucking hate influencers. They are the most obnoxious, pretentious, fake people. Sure there are exceptions to that, but it’s true 90% of the time.

Jayde Pierce appears unaware of the irony when she writes: “People feel like they can tell you how to live your life. It’s very frustrating.” The woman is called an influencer for crissakes and she complains about people telling her how to live her life!? Wotta maroon!

I am generally not one to notice photoshop, but good lord that first picture.

The woman claiming that “it’s hard work” then goes on to describe being busy. I’m not convinced she’s working hard. Lots of people are busy, and they’re busy all day long with work that’s actually hard. She’s merely busy. She doesn’t know the difference because she’s probably never worked hard before.

IDK if it’s related, but there’a rather wonderful send up of this in the New Yorker, titled “How to be an amazing influencer like me”.

If you’re having anxiety any time they take longer than you expect to get home, that’s probably enough to go to therapy for. Being a worrier is called having anxiety and it’s still something generally worth addressing rather than just living with.

You do you, I’m not going to judge someone else’s relationship and what works for them. Know this though.

“Oh, they’ve just left work, time to put the oven on”, or “Looks like they’ll be home early, better get a move on”