Um, no. you don’t cut out closest family for this reason. You just hold your ground and love them, frustratingly, anyway.

You can do what I do: talk shit about her to your hairdresser and friends and then feel really guilty because she is your sister and you love her.

Here here.

There’s a guy on this thread calling all of us “whining” and “wahhhhing” “bitches.” And “basket cases.” And “harpies.”

And now we have “bitching”

It is crazy the semantic hoops that women have to experiment with to get their husbands to chip in. It’s like the household labor comes with its own extra emotional/psychological labor.

You should tell him about that fantasy. Seriously.

Hysterical, even... ; )

Exfuckingscuseme, but you’re saying we shouldn’t be in public in certain totally normal ways as women because of what that might invite? Do you hear what you’re saying? And there’s a relationship between that attitude and the Islamist one, btw.

“Harpies, basket case, bitch, whining, waaaahing”

You come home and fix something every day?

And there it is.

Both; the answer is he’s both.

You don’t care because she does it for you, you fucking moron.

“Whining about the small things.” This isn’t small; its millions of small things women put up with that add up to one hairy ball of fuck-my-life. And “whining?”

But how often do these things need fixing? Is this a literal every day thing?

Oh hell fucking no. Can you imagine a stay at home mom saying this? Dinner is part of the deal. Always has been for housewives — I don't see why it would be any different for men who stay at home. You look after the children, you clean, you and cafe of household duties, you cook...all worthwhile and all the duties of…

Re: the lede picture. I love Jane the Virgin so, so much. The relationships and conversation between the women, the unequal burden of parenting, the grossness of pregnancy and difficulty of feeding (latching, lactation, being in your pajamas and dirty for a week and yet still managing to make the character loved!)…

Well, considering that people are so offended by women’s biology that they thought *fruit* was suggestive, what do you suggest they do instead?

Agreed. And fuck those people who starred that comment. I can't believe there's more than 0 people who agree with him. Fucking sad.