I didn’t until I was 27. And I’m questioning our breakup because I realize it’s uncommon. They are out there though! I wouldn’t give up yet : ). (Part of it is not wasting time with bozos and picking up on the right information...went through so many bozos before him).

I’m not sure what you mean by prize. My last bf adored me...he wasn’t always great at speaking his feelings and didn’t meet enough in certain ways, but he was supportive and loving and kind. Those guys are out there, just hard to find (I very much wish I was more attracted to this man and had more in common with him…

YES - those convos *are* a piece of emotional labor and it seems it’s always women who ask for them. It’s almosr always on us. Which also means that it’s women who are unhappy with the arrangement. (Though perhaps it also takes energy to suppress the way men do).

This is the most disgusting troll ever. Seriously, fuck you. If you actually believe what you’re saying and don’t understand the intention behind why she shared what she did, you’re either incredibly stupid, a complete piece of shit, or both.

Woah. What your implying is that we should pander to the whims of terrorists, then. I don’t want to live in that world, either.

Whaaaaaaaaat!!!!!!!!!!!!

Patriarchy!

If you heard Demi’s voice in a local club, every single eye and pair of ears would be on her. I think we take it for granted how talented some of these girls are. Their sound might be the most unique, but they can saaaaaaang (and perform). Demi could easily jump into a set with any of the best bands in my (music) city…

To be fair, she was a ska/rock goddess for five or so years (and was one of my personal elementary school heroes). Then - taking cues from Madonna - she went on to make shit music and appropriate other cultures and attitudes for $$$. : /

Omg can you imagine if, like, Donna Karen did this? Or any female designer? They’d be “out of control” and “whores” and “troubled” and their careers would be in the can.

I’m in my late twenties (29 next week!), newly single, and you’d better bet that with any guy I date, marriage (that is, the long-term viability of each potential partnership) is on my mind. Wish it wasn’t, but let’s get real - at this age most of us are scouting for a life partner.

It seems like I’m the only one voicing this but...while it may not matter when you first get married, it does mean that if you have children their father would be significantly older, which comes with its own baggage. And you’ll be aging at different rates, which also means health and pace could be different. This…

I loved this.

You say lovely, I say disturbingly uncanny. Potato, potah-toh.

That “interview” bothered me so the fuck much.

I love how you guys dropped the “baby Ariana Grande” thing the moment you heard she read G Steinem.

Can I ask how old you are?

*moms

Makes me sick to say it, but this ad is totally fair. Violence criminal or liar, the guy is not someone we want anywhere near the white house. He shouldn’t hold office, anywhere, period.

Naw, I agree, it’s unsafe. Condoms break.