He always looks to me like he's getting ready to preach a passionate sermon about Fashion and the vibrant color and owning your identity and giving zero fucks about the haters.

it's the suburbia of lines

I haven't read all the details of the scandals, because my god, who has time for that shit when there are funny cat videos online, but I think a major problem is that not all the sexting was consensual. He was sending totally inappropriate texts to women who didn't want them. Which, IMHO, makes it significantly worse.

Mixed bag, in my experience. It's too common for there to be a distinct character type.

Lazy research? Insofar as the writing of this article involved research of any kind?

There's no reason to think that's hardwiring. If a girl grows up being shown/told that women are caretakers and are able/allowed to have greater emotional range than men, of course they're going to be more attuned to emotional nuance in others.

I also dig silver hair! I'm actually kind of excited that I've got a few coming in... it'll be fun to see what my hair ends up looking like.

I'm 28. I have friends and a cool job and multiple degrees in a field I'm fascinated by. I'm successful in many areas of my life, and I'm assured by my friends that I'm a pretty cool person.

That is a weird ass metaphor for "different relationships are different." Also, if he was smirking at you while you were trying to have an honest conversation about your (potential) relationship, that kinda gives me the impression that likes your uncertainty, which is a major red flag. Don't let this guy get you all…

That is a pretty perfect description of teenagerdom. And it started when I was 10. 10! Ten years old, and I already had boys thinking it was a hilarious joke to get me to think I was pretty then pull the rug out from under me. I'm *still* dealing with the emotional residue of that shit. And I had it better than a LOT…

That's really interesting. I guess it makes sense that most murderers have very specific targets and aren't dangerous to others, but it's kind of hard to wrap my mind around.

I get that. For me, when I find myself doing this it's often because of very old insecurities. Like, I had multiple guys between 5th and 12th grade ask me out as a joke. Which makes me a little skeptical when a guy says he likes me. But there's still a bit of "if I'm honest about how much I like this guy, is he going…

Thanks, everybody! I actually had a really good time tonight and am glad I went, but I shall have to try these ideas out next time I'm feeling misanthropic.

I actually prefer green peppers to black (black are okay in/on things like pizza and salad, but green are better on their own, IMHO).

Banana peppers make EVERYTHING better!

Oven vs. microwave is about 80% dependent on how badly I need the nachos. Sometimes I just can't wait for the oven to heat up (even though I know I should!).

Ooh, it never occurred to me to put stuff *under* the chips, but that totally makes sense.

Well, you say that you don't care and it's none of your business, but you've also posted it as a topic for discussion on a website, so I'm just wondering why that is.

A nap sounds like a reasonable response. And yeah, the pregnant woman was kind of confusing. There was also at least one woman who seemed to maybe be larger than a size 4 or whatever the rest of them were? She was sort of near the beginning, very briefly (I freely admit to skimming the middle bits when I saw that it…

Wow, that's intense. Are there any common personality traits these guys have had that can help you identify others? Or maybe you could do background checks or something? I don't know. That's some scary stuff.