He said it multiple times. His gf is aware and is still with him because she has low self-esteem. It's pretty heartbreaking. She deserves better.

Apparently he was allowed the poor taste to crow to me, the woman he dumped, about possibly getting engaged in Vegas (when he had never taken me anywhere), but I was not allowed to date anyone he knew without OMG FUCKING THE NEW GUY THE WHOLE TIME BEHIND HIS BACK!!!

There’s a picture of this guy in the dictionary next…

I’m still friends with some of my exes because we didn’t end on bad terms and I’m rarely on it to really care. One of my exes texts me a week before the wedding telling me about a dream he had of me and how he missed hanging out just the two of us. I replied with short answers, but he just kept going and talking about…

“The ENTIRE TIME WE WERE TOGETHER didn’t count!” Like they’re five years old.

I was knocked up. My Mom told me on the phone that I could always come home and, if we were getting married, he could come, too. When I told him, he said, “So I guess we’re getting married?”

I was a little sad when my high school sweetheart got married, but I controlled myself. His wife friended me on facebook a few weeks later; since I’ve never met her and have no connection to her other than him, I assume it was to rub it in my face. Years later when I got married she unfriended me.

I found out my ex was engaged when he dropped me an insistent FB message asking for my mailing address so he could send a wedding invitation.

Because being fat is the worst thing ever.

I seriously dated a girl and shared an apartment with her for years, but it just didn’t work out in the end, but I felt bad for breaking up with her, so I kept in touch as friends.

How about he freaked when he found out I was merely dating, even though he was the one who broke up with me?

If by “freak out,” you mean “post a bunch of Vague-book statuses about SOME MYSTERIOUS PERSON who RUINED EVERYTHING,” then yes, I would say my ex-husband freaked out when I got re-married.

I am not engaged or married, but my ex did drunk text me to let me know that he called off his wedding one month before the blessed event was to occur. We then met up after the text convo (we maintained a mutual affection for each other and friendship of sorts) after which he tried to get me to go home with him. The…

My cousin’s ex freaked out! My cousin dated this dude for two years. We all liked him, he seemed like a nice dude, they looked like they were probably headed towards marriage... until my cousin found out he cheated on her. He spent weeks trying to get her back and she kept dodging him. Like two months later she…

None of my exes freaked out but all the significant exes in my adult life made cameo appearances over the next couple of weeks post-engagement.

One of my exes, upon hearing of my engagement, confronted me at work and outcried a tantruming baby because I was his first everything and he thought that meant I was his forever. He then tried to pry the ring off my finger and as security took him away, he kept saying I would regret it.

I didn’t wind up marrying the…

My ex just made some passive-aggressive vague posts on Facebook. “So happy to have the support of my REAL friends,” “Life doesn’t make sense sometimes, but I know now that moving on is the best solution,” and the like. That almost irritated me more than an actual meltdown, just because he has this victim mentality…

I did everything by the book. Told my ex before I told our son, and didn’t sugar the pill. My ex is a control freak and hated the fact that it was me that ended things. At that point, any attempt to be nice meant that I must want him back, so it was easier to be matter-of-fact.

Nope, just a congratulations message which was a little bit weird and felt like he wanted a response/rise out of me. I just replied with a “thanks” and went on my way because since me he's had no luck with meaningful relationships.

Sort of related: my ex-husband had a meltdown when I let him know that I started dating someone. Never mind that he had been dating the same girl for a year and lived with her.

One of my exes was really upset. He thought he would have another chance after “this relationship ends because it was just a phase “. Turns out we got along really and we got engaged. He msg’d me and start saying stuff like “what about me? Us? What we had? You are all I think about every day” and “ please end this…