Well, yeah, but that still doesn't excuse the cop-out.

Not in the books. She later said he was gay but it was never in the canon. That's just about as empty as saying "of course there were LGBT students, I just didn't write them in."

This was how I figured out that Santa wasn't real: because Santa at Dad's house had Dad's handwriting on the presents, and Santa at Mom's house had her handwriting. I'm such a little shit, but sometimes I like to remind my parents that I found out Santa wasn't real because they got a divorce and watch them squirm a…

Sometimes people just don't want to maintain contact even if there's no abuse involved. And that's fine. I'm not super attached to pets, (so take this with that considered) but I could very easily see a situation where I have an amicable enough breakup but don't want to see them enough that it outweighs just getting…

She did say in a world, not a country or religion. Sexism comes out differently in different places, but it's everywhere.

I'm currently a grad student in philosophy and I wouldn't expect help from my parents (though they paid for some of my undergrad tuition). But here's the thing about graduate degrees in "useless" subjects: if the university isn't funding you, you shouldn't be there. They're just sucking your tuition money at that…

Totally! Our destination wedding cost $1300/person for a week in Mexico. If we were to have it in my hometown, everyone would have spent $500 on plane tickets, thrown a few hundred at hotels and bought a gift. The cost difference wasn't actually that much for most of our guests anyways.

We had a destination wedding for exactly that reason. If we had a wedding with just a few friends, grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins with their families, our guest list would have topped 500. We have insanely large families, but couldn't justify making arbitrary cuts between cousins we do and don't like. And if…

Jealous. That is far from the norm.

There were a lot of things about my husband I didn't fully understand until after we got married. We didn't live together beforehand, so that certainly contributed. But it does happen and it is really fucking hard to handle when it does.

She's being sarcastic. Hence the spongebob.

My wedding band is 19k gold with 8 small diamonds and it was only around $400 I think...

Wow, fat shaming, classism and elitism all in one go! Impressive.

Of course that's not what I'm saying. We most certainly are, and it sucks and everyone is responsible to do their part to end that oppression. However, trans women are more oppressed than cis women.

I don't know what any of those services are, but obviously we would have different ones here. The delivery service (the most popular one) in my city is one run through our most popular local grocery store chain.

I'm pretty fond of the place, not gonna lie :)

I haven't ever actually used the service myself, but worked as a nanny for a family that did and was the one there when the groceries arrived. They ordered produce and it was always in really good shape. The shoppers they send to go get your cart full go and shop for you just like they would for themselves. They pick…

I live in Canada and grocery delivery is pretty common here. And has been available for at least 6 years (as that was my first run-in with it). Pretty nice, all in all.

Umm, beans are legumes.

Mmmmmm. Totally.