I is a dumb and don't know what that is. But also since I don't know what it is I'm not sure I should google it. HALP.

Keep an eye out for invite posts. There was one maybe a month ago.

I'm always so uncertain what to do in this situation. I am diagnosed gluten intolerant, but to be honest, every now and again I cheat. I pay for my cheats, but I also feel entitled, to some extent, to choose when they occur. I almost always make an effort to choose places with stuff that either requires no…

That's interesting. I've lived in a few places in Canada and everyone, everywhere seems to call them prawns. Like, if jumbo shrimp showed up on a menu, that would be the first time in my life that I've seen it.

Yeah, my husband and I didn't, but we're lucky it went well. We were good friends, in a friend group where both of us had exes in it. The chips all ended up falling nicely, but things could have gone really poorly had they not. If we had been more deliberate (asking our exes if they were ok first, actually spending…

Yeah, there's variation. My sister had about the same sized breasts as I do, but hers were differently shaped and so they sagged a ton, whereas mine are (relatively) upright for their size because they're spherical, not oblong. But, at a certain point, there's only so much weight that skin can take.

Yeah, I'm 24 and mine have defied gravity pretty amazingly given their size, but they are NOWHERE in the league of those things.

I couldn't live with myself. I would take a bath in it and then it would melt partially and I would be faced with the hardest decision of my life: to drink the water I just bathed in or to let all that gorgeous chocolate go down the drain.

HAHAHAHAHA. As an owner of natural J cups, if they're real, they sure as hell don't stay up like that in a strapless dress. I call BS.

Your level-headedness astounds me Sir. Good on ya.

Yes. Trans women are less privileged than cis women. And, for the record, I'm a cis woman that's in a male-dominated field, a victim of sexual violence and was taught pretty strict gender roles from day 1. I know what you're talking about. I address the issue of whether trans women are less privileged than cis women…

Sometimes, yes we do. If you're in a position of privilege (ie being cis) and you don't acknowledge that you are more privileged than the oppressed then that's a huge red flag (think men whining that men aren't privileged because they're "expected" to provide for women).

But it's still a bad analogy. That would be more like Mexican Americans, Asian Americans and Native Americans throwing a festival about the realities of being a person of colour and excluding black people.

Yeah, but it's not the privileged asking for inclusion from the oppressed. It's objectively verifiable that trans women are less privileged than cis women. It's inappropriate for white people to attend black-only events because that's the direction the oppression flows. The better analogy for the Fest is a whites-only…

Kindara is my jam. I fucking love that app.

Please do not be joking. I am seriously looking forward to reading that.

You win everything.

You're being willfully clueless and trolling. Nobody here is arguing that statistics are inherently racist. I'm not going to engage with you any more.

I'm sorry, but there's no way you can rationally argue that "Do you even read?" isn't a condescending thing to say.

Discussing the problem respectfully and intelligently isn't racist, but making jokes about "drunk natives" or poverty on reservations is, and so is assuming any particular individual to be an alcoholic or poor etc. There's no need to be condescending.