I don’t understand how she isn’t free to have whatever the hell standards she chooses about who she has sex with. Is it how she objected? Because the language didn’t seem homophobic in that she objected to men having sex with men but rather she was making a point about being exposed to STDs due to the different…

Thank you! I was just about to google this. I have been unable to log-in on my iphone for months now and it’s driven me batty.

I’m back. How’re you doing?

Please don’t make any absolute decisions without talking to someone first. You’ve reached out online, take the next step and call someone. Call a family member or friend you trust or call the hotline (800) 273-8255.

I didn’t even know this was a thing that could happen! I have a lot of eggs (we know this from a ultrasound after a miscarriage) and I wonder if this is an issue. Ovulation tracking with Clear Blue fertility monitor has had me ovulating late a few months, especially right after the miscarriage. It seems like lately…

This may be intrusive but what did you find out? I am of course self diagnosing with every problem under the sun.

This! I tried to get into season 2 and just couldn’t so the question is... is it worth picking it up again? I got off the books as well, I just couldn’t after the first two.

I’m sorry for you loss. We had a miscarriage in May and they mess with you something fierce. It really is a numbers game, but dammit why can’t I win at this?

Oh I 100% am :)

Not overstepping. THANK YOU. It has been a major point of contention in our relation as of late. I think a lot of it stems from a desire on his part to not have to make lifestyle changes. He has a nicotine habit, drinks, smokes pot occasionally and doesn’t exercise and is a bit chubby. Any one of those behaviors can…

Oh wow. I don’t want that kind of fertility. I’m sorry you have had to deal with that, that’s a freaking roller coaster right there.

Talking about infertility and miscarriages is so important. I was really open with mine and it kind of shocked people for a second because so many women would come whisper to me about theirs after they found out and I just wish it was more openly discussed.

The congratulatory aspect of getting pregnant so quickly has started to bother me. We’re trying, it took us 3 months last time and then I miscarried. My friend just started: first month. She goes “but I mean I’m super fertile”. I’m like “Bitch are you saying I’m infertile? It’s a numbers game, you got lucky.” I have a…

Oh my god, this poem is just so dead on. Thank you for this.

My dad is 71 and he has hair just like this: blonde with white bits creeping in. I feel like some shades of blonde just don’t really go gray until way later and often just transition to white. 

I’m firmly in the “drink til it’s pink” camp. Too many frustrating 2ww.

You and me both sister. At the beginning of this year me and like 3 friends and a coworker all wanted to get pregnant. Now it’s September and I alone am not (I was but I miscarried). And it just consumes you. It’s so frustrating to want something so very much and have such little control. Thinking good thoughts your…

So what you’re saying is the reason I only orgasm once is that my husband and I need to be building more blanket forts and then have blanket fort sex?

Can I ask how you went about adopting? We’re looking into it and it seems very expensive. Did you go through an agency? A lawyer?

Versailles was so bad it was good. I still didn’t finish it but I found the Guardian’s episode guides and those alone are worth a read. I always post them when people bring up Versailles. https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/series/versailles-episode-by-episode