I mean that a huge majority of easily accessible (porn websites, pay and pornhub ect) bdsm porn is filmed in such a way that it's recognizable to be from a company. IE, not a rape video someone shot in their basement. I also prefaced that statement with 'I think'

Everything you said is very true. Albeit, I haven't seen many of the less commercially approved porn you're talking about. I have seen a lot of tears, choking, piercing, complete degradation, ect that were in commercial shoots. Things that I found extremely disgusting personally, but I believe was truly consensual.…

I think 99% of porn that's easily accessible is regulated on sets with recognizable porn actors, including BDSM/Rough/humiliation porn. I think that's why I don't understand the issue of it condoning rape culture. These are movies that people watch because they're already into these fetishes, I really doubt someone…

It probably is fairly idealistic, but honestly everyone I've known who's been into that kind of stuff truly felt that way and to my knowledge acted that way.

(I'm not arguing at all, but I'd love to get your opinion) Since you are active in the community, don't you find that some subs actually enjoy the, for lack of a better term, rapey porn? And I know a few women that genuinely enjoy being treated as an object for pleasure (only in certain sexual circumstances of course)…

Yeah, someone needs to tell me how the hell that makes any damn sense. Plenty of healthy normal couples do bdsm play, and instead of it being 'tie me up and lick hershey sauce off my belly button' it's simulated rape? I mean one person is bound. Who the hell decides what simulated rape is?

I agree that we as a society need to find a way to ensure that children don't stumble upon porn, but that adults have every right to it. The idea that porn is all sexually objectifying to women is kind of a slippery slope. Outside of the obvious actual lesbian porn (not the kind made for straight men) and gay porn,…

I'm a pro-porn feminist. I think we're actually the majority, but they're using 'Oh women and all feminists don't want you to watch big scary porn!' as a way to shift blame.

I think we need to increase education. I see nothing wrong with porn, I dig porn. And even the fetishy type stuff doesn't condone rape culture, it condones getting freaky with consenting parties. I saw one that was a little rough and the beginning of the porn the female director was going over consent stuff and safe…

Sexiest thing my guy can wear is a tight black T and jeans. Damn he has some great bicepts.

Sick fucks is completely ok, there isn't a word vile enough for those wastes of oxygen.

I think it's one thing to say that AA sucks (which is my opinion) and to say that it sucks for women. I just feel this further divides women.

Thanks for bringing that up, I hadn't heard of that before. So awful.

Fucking horrible. Kudos to the couple who stayed to see it through though, that must have been hard.

I feel ya on that one. Well you walk into a sex store and there's a damn WALL of vibes. Some are amazing and some are complete crap. I've had cheap ones that were amazing, and expensive ones I used once and threw out.

Preach it!

There was one that was really popular a few years ago and it was a huge pink cone, like a smoothed pyramid. And it's base was like a foot wide? I still don't have a clue how someone could use that.

That's a great idea, some women are just uncomfortable with phallic shaped things. It would be a good gateway toy.

Honestly one of my favorite vibes ever was like 7 dollars and lasted about 5 years. Right now I have another cheap one and one of the really nice Lelo ones, I still reach for the cheap one more often.

It's not permanent. It's more that you just get used to it for a little so you're less sensitive, after like a week you should be back to normal though. There are a lot of good article about it, I think it's a common concern.