Re: The Vietnamese name (as people seem confused), it is very possible he’s mixed (he is old enough to be a child of the Vietnam War era), or it’s just a terrible mugshot — he was identified as Asian in person, after all. I also know some full Vietnamese people who look super Caucasian — missionaries in the past, or…

nobody is saying she’s not. they’re saying that constantly hearing other people’s similar stories can be too much to handle, and here is an example.

Lena Dunham suggested a rape victim was lying for money. The victim happened to have a wealthy, well-known father but even if she didn’t that is horrid. This is not remotely that.

“I kind of want to come up with a little bit of a code of conduct...”

THANK YOU for your research-driven, nuanced, and compassionate response.

I did research on workplace sexual harassment in law school. I’m hardly an expert, but a lot of my research showed that a reason some victims do not come forward is that they do not actually want to ruin their harasser’s life and get him fired. For some victims, they want a more restorative approach (counselling,…

Rest assured, things would be better than they are now. We’d have the same problems we did under Obama, and boy we all wish we could go back to then.

Yes, it would have been better.

Get an old car with no loan, get or stay married?

It’s not even that it’s “not fun”, it’s that it’s not possible when you have one income, a student loan, a kid, a car payment, rent that is NOT shared with three other people, and other responsibilities.

Trickle Down Feminism?

Ah, yes. The Berkshires were a freaking mess and oh so entertaining! That was an exceptional season, I will admit.

The mark of adulthood isn’t being married or having kids or having a 401(k), it’s accepting (even embracing!) that not everything is supposed to be tailored to you in particular.

Did you see Season 8, of RHONY, it’s worth it, just to see the Berkshires trip

So ... you actually did steal.

Fat is flavor and fuel. Sugar is, basically, poison.

Nope. Fat good. Sugar bad.

ya...definitely a pot meets kettle thing. that person said the most inane, ignorant response to the article and turns around and complains about trolls. the hypocrisy is astounding.

Are you fucking serious? Congratulations on being the first, but not the last, white woman to miss the entire point.

Shiba Inus, Bean (brown) and Yura (black) from when I first saw them to now