jesus christ. absurd? really? I just tried to explain why people were reacting to that line. I in no way implied it was a trial, just that this was a defense commonly invoked by rapists, which was why some people might have thought it was a bit rapey. You didn't need to get so bloody aggressive.

just because she grabs him, doesn't mean she wants "it". I think that's what's problematic for people. In a lot of court cases the defendants say things like "she was dancing really slutty with me in the club... why would she do that if she didn't want my penis in her... she obvi wanted it then... now she's just…

well I didn't really investigate further but I assumed that maybe they were referring particularly to western women who worked in the region and in their field (i.e. non-governmental orgs/ military/ security). A lot of these women are older than the traditional marriage age in the area and most didn't have/want…

I'm sort of turned on right now?

This gif! Also please report back with findings!

honestly I wouldn't be able to tell you. I was just paraphrasing what was said, I wasn't agreeing with it. I didn't really want to ask any further because as a white western woman with feminist beliefs I figured it might lead to some confusion/ frustration and I don't feel I have the intellectual chops to have that…

http://www.amazon.com/Emmas-War-Debo…

I seriously doubt the shirt'd look like that after a couple of weeks in the bush.

I was talking to an east African army major once about the many 'gender advisers' that western NGO's send to help them reform and he told me that the problem was that most of east African military strategists see western white women as almost genderless in that they do not posses any of the markers of womanhood that…

I'm betting the guy in Nairobi saw a business opportunity to lead tours of "warrior training for white people" and that this is not the actual warrior training.

for some reason it reminded me of this

I've been there before and I know how much it sucks. people love you. i promise! hug!

I will never stop heralding the awesomeness of this thing for self defense http://www.surefire.com/illumination/f…

But what about spilling?

nothing is ever available in my damn area! I wanted to watch so much!

i was also thinking about the dirt... and then the poor intern who had to sterilize all of this afterward...

Non-hormonal IUD. I have one. I love it. Everyone I know who has one loves it. But if you're not with one dude who you know HAS been tested and I would suggest you stick with the condoms anyway. You really don't want some of what's going around out there.

I'm on a non-hormonal IUD and it is awesome. Set it and forget it!

Why is the IUD "scary"?

canada is pretty big and diverse.