Good Lord.

I was at Sephora today to drop 30 bucks ( and I'm not rich!) on what I consider to be the best eyeliner, the Lancome Artliner. I have spent tons of money on cheaper liners but they end up in the bottom of the drawer. Applying eyeliner isn't easy. I practice on off nights when I'm not going out and then wash it off.…

I've posted on here about this before. I walked out on a job back in June. In the middle of a busy day. It was work I love, but I hated the situation. I got a better job, more money, closer to home, wonderful people and perfectly suited for me. I did feel bad about leaving my coworkers hanging but I had to save…

NOT weird! Sounds beautiful!

Not sure if that's the craziest thing one has done to get laid, but certainly one of the most successful. If you can free yourself from your restraints for a bit, may I suggest a visit to your local divorce court?

Thank you! I went to the Apple store today and they confirmed that is the right thing to do. My computer is suspended over a fan for the next 3 days, then I'm taking it in for a post-mortum.

Thanks. The "perp" is having second thoughts on the matter and has adusted his response. Maybe because I slapped his face? It was a loving slap , but it took.

Your 20's were harder than what most of us experience. I'm so sorry about your father. You've had to take on adult responsibilities that usually come later in life. Caring for a parent is a task generally reserved for us mature folks and I'm sure it has affected you. BUT. Take it from an *OFFICIAL OLD PERSON* Who has…

There are many safe antidepressants to take when you're pregnant. This is not the time to go off your meds. Please, call your OB, she needs to know. She can make sure you are taking safe medications, and plenty are safe. Pregnancy messes with you both physically and mentally. I'm an OB/Gyn nurse. Contact your…

Interesting! Sadly my computer doesn't come apart, but I'm going to explore this. The best part of your answer is I will likely have to get a cat to help me use up the excess litter. I've been lobbying to get a kitty and now Mr. Zulu cannot object!

Yeah, I'm going with the fan option. I'm not sure I trust rice and its dust.

Yes I saw that as well. I might have to explore that, thanks!

I wish I could.

Thanks! that pretty much sums up the conversation that just occurred in the Zulu household!

I can't. It's built in. I tried!

Thanks. I researched it and went with the hanging the computer over a fan option, although the rice solution did have many supporters. I worried about the dust.....Clearly there is no perfect answer.

I love a problem solver! I might just try this...

Water just got spilled on my new MacBook Air. I have it positioned upside down hanging over a fan. I guess I just wait and see? Any advice from ya'll would be great. Also, the perpetrator of the spill apologized but says I can't be mad because it was just an accident. Is that true? I sure am having some mad-type…

I see in replies you've made that you just hit 30, and it looks like you have a heavy debt load. You are young, and shouldering significant financial burden which is very stressful. You are new to your profession. Don't be so hard on yourself. It's basically impossible to be great at anything at your age. Being…

It sounds like the sexual phase of your relationship has run it's course. This shit happens, even if you care for your partner sometimes the fire just goes out. I've been through it. Sounds like you guys have a great friendship so hopefully that will endure. "Just friends"...I'm friends with almost all my ex's, and…