6'1 tall, 36H. It's impossible to find anything that fits me for any situation ever. There was a bathing suit place near where I grew up that went up to M, I believe....but their tops were well into the three figures for those sizes.

Seriously. I'm overweight, but I gain weight in weird areas...not all over in a pleasing way. I've been described as 'lumpy' on several occasions.

My boyfriend is VERY hairy...and yet, I think he's incredibly sexy and would never dream of telling him to cover up when we're at the beach due to random people's sensibilities. I think his body is very pleasing and he should show it off any way he likes.

You know what's funny? The better I felt about my body and how I looked, the more effort I wanted to put into getting in shape and taking care of myself. When people oinked at me, moo'd at me and called me fat, it made me want to hide away and eat due to the depression it caused.

Yep. Quite a few of my 'attractive' friends are married to or dating very large and relatively unattractive men... in fact, I'd say it was incredibly common where I grew up. Even my cousin who is around 5'7, close to 300 lbs and has a season job on a winery (i.e. far from wealthy and lives in a single wide trailer)…

Unfortunately, this is how her job is evolving. I mean, I'm pissed off that I have to go into debt to go back to school because to advance in my career path I need to have a graduate degree, when just a few years ago it required a high school diploma. Celebrities are brands now, that's the way it's evolved. I had…

While I have come to the conclusion that I'll never have the opportunity to look at wedding dresses, if I did get married it would be in a giant, hideous, puffy sleeved 80s wedding dress.

I've been asked if I was a drag queen on several occasions when wearing heels, and weirdly that did make me feel sexy.

I took a few nude photos of myself when I started a weight loss/workout etc. journey. I wanted to see the change without clothing or anything messing with the results. A guy 'friend' of mine grabbed my phone to take some pictures of a serial number on a part (I was a mechanic at the time) and sent them to himself. …

I went to trade school. The only jobs I could find after I graduated were graveyard shifts, getting paid under $15 an hour AND I had to buy all of my own tools and equipment. To move up to anything decent you were required to have, get this, a bachelor's degree at minimum. So even after trade school, many places…

Eh. As someone who had zero luck dating growing up and didn't have my first 'real' boyfriend until I was 29, hearing him introduce me as his girlfriend still gives me butterflies. We've been together a bit over a year now and I still get all giggly when he flippantly says 'my girlfriend'.

ha, my dude hates it when I call him my Gentleman Caller because he says it sounds like he's my secret lovah. I may have to start using consort though...

6'1 here. Even when I was clinically underweight due to a medical condition I never dipped below a size 12.

Eh, don't be :) I like being tall, but a lifetime of rejection and bullying wasn't exactly enjoyable.

6'1 tall, I was around 120 lbs in high school and in my early 20s. Never had a thigh gap.

Yep. When I get below 160 my ribcage is easily seen, my hips poke out and I start looking semi-sick. I look my best at around 180 and have had many guys think I'm in the 130 range at that weight. My boyfriend still thinks he has '30-40' lbs on me when in reality I weight about 10 lbs more than he does.

I was an evesdropper during a conversation at an auto place I worked at in my late teens (hooray for being the only woman!) and there was some super duper serious conversation about how ANY woman over 120 lbs is fat. Period. Anything over 120 regardless of height or build. Now, me being nearly 6'2...well, I think…

I worked for a private FBO and there were hookups galore! I think out of 20 or so pilots, all but 3 were married and all but 2 hooked up on the regular and it was VERY well known. Some of their wives even worked at the company as well, but that never stopped them. 3 of them had families in other countries...nobody…

Yep :( I worked as both an auto mechanic and aircraft mechanic and honestly, I'm still completely fucked when it comes to having a healthy relationship. 10 solid years of hearing crap like that from men, men bragging about cheating on their wives/girlfriends, dissecting women by their parts and saying the most…