I totally agree. Watching porn is one of those few unmitigated selfish acts. It's all about your own arousal. And frankly? As a woman, blow jobs aren't about me. I enjoy giving them but I have no interest in watching them performed. It's boring.

This. Mostly, the only thing BJss have going for them in real life is the reaction you get. Not quite so interesting when you're staring at a screen.

I think you are making the assumption that Porn for Women is all about soft sweet sex. Some of it might be but porn for women is all about the female gaze and that the performers male and female get off. Some of the performers work with their partners only. There are also male solos, that's meant to be viewed by…

For me it's the projectile spitting during the BJ. Eeeewww! Who does that?

"Porn where I actually have a hard time telling if the woman is faking arousal."

"Now this guy comes in with the porn equivalent of "you're the one who's racist for calling that joke racist! I wasn't thinking of a race when I made that joke, I don't even see race!"

I see nothing here against feminist ethically produced porn. He's starred in Tristan taormino's movies before. I read this as softer, romantic "porn for women" is counter productive as being represented as the only acceptable porn for women to consume when our tastes vary, just like m men's

Um, we need porn for women because right now all we mostly have is porn for men. I am totally turned off by porn that focuses on male pleasure rather than female pleasure. I want porn whereby women are the sexual aggressors not the men.

Sure, a lot of porn can turn me on but I'm sorry all those blowjob shots are just boring. It goes from hot to tedious pretty quickly for me.

I can't wait for his and Robin Thicke's Guide to Feminism to come out in paperback. Call me when the majority of porn directors aren't dudes. Kthanksbai.

Congratulations on your recovery, and here's to 53 more, and 53 more, and 53 more after that, and many more 53s.

I'm 53 days sober today after years of pain pill abuse, and after a stint in rehab this summer, just want to cry for him. Addiction. Fucking. Sucks. Nobody sets out to become an addict, and ... the guilt and shame I'm feeling now, seeing the mess I've made... ugh. This is their family issue, and I hope he can TCB soon…

Color me shocked!

(as long as shocked isn't a dark color, because yuck!)

A racist blonde chick whose name is an anagram of Aryan? You don't say.

I judge people's eyebrows.

Her wonky eyebrows really bring out the dazed and confused look in her eyes. She really has no clue what's waiting for her on the other side..and you have no idea how sinfully gleeful this makes me.

Because she's a stupid fuck who thought her racism would be okay to display on national television?

I have to admit that her deer in the headlights/"I just just got caught being an asshole"/ fake remorse/"I'm sorry I got caught"/"I'm sorry you were offended" response to this is more than I could've hoped for. If she just owned it than she would have sort of the upper hand, because she wouldn't give a fuck. She's…

That was my immediate reaction, too. Fucking hell like I'm going to try to find parking in the Marina. The only upside I can think of is that one time I walked past La Boulange on Union right when they closed and they had set out all their unsold bread and pastries from that day, which was probably the highlight of…