I do think fetishization of gay male relationships is pretty common (I'd actually just mentioned it in a comment before I saw yours), but I just want to point out that there have been several surveys and studies (and my personal online experience also corroborates) that a significant, if not majority, number of people…

But women can also have and express internalized misogyny, as well as racism or homophobia or any other -ism. Being bothered by writing tropes that uncritically reflect those things isn't the same as being "grossed out" by something weird, and I think for a lot of people, the alpha/beta/omega concept is too steeped in…

Oh geez, I've seen trans black, trans fat, trans disabled, along with a person who claimed to be a "multi-system" with one asexual persona, one genderqueer, and one rabbit otherkin (who preferred the pronouns bun, buns, and bunself). I shut off the computer and went to bed early that night.

Given that you've shown precisely the sort of person you are throughout this thread, yours matters even less.

Maybe she's "denying him intimacy" (lol) because she's grossed out by how he keeps asking her to fuck when she's busy or tired or not feeling well.

Brave of you to admit that you've been the guy who puts zero effort or care into his relationship and expects to be permitted sexual access no matter what is going on with her or how she feels, even to the point of repeatedly propositioning her when she's occupied with an activity she enjoys.

There is literally nothing in this guy's documented behavior to suggest he was going any mile at all, let alone an extra one. If there had been any genuine desire to fix an issue, he would have realized when compiling his own stupid spreadsheet that he should stop asking for sex when she's watching tv or is tired from…

Nope.

But how do you know he didn't try to talk to her so many times before?? How do you knowwwwwww, men have neeeeeeeeds, doing housework isn't one of themmmmm!

Oh, I think we know why.

Careful, you're going to blow out your ACL jumping to all these conclusions.

Good for her.

You're an incredibly repellant person.

Actually, the fact that you don't realize this pestering (what with repeatedly propositioning her during shows she's watching, or a movie, or when she's not feeling well) says a lot about the quality of YOUR initiations.

You're gross.

Yeah, you'd think just the act of making his pissy spreadsheet would give him a lightbulb moment and make him think, "Hey, maybe I should stop asking her to fuck me when she's trying to watch a show or movie she likes, or when she tired from going to the gym, or when she's not feeling well..."

You're disgusting, congrats.

Yes, because that's all women care about, being deemed fuckable. All it takes is one dude yelling that he'd bang you to cheer right up! Even if you're struggling with weight gain and obvious fatigue and being comfortable in your own skin every day. Nope, fuckability is a magic bullet panacea.

Apparently fucking not, geez.

It's almost as bad as getting cheated on.