I realize you're cranky because people can see through your "religion is superstition, I am morally superior!" posturing. It's okay, that's understandable.

Oh no, it's all stuff you've said. No projecting necessary! And it's been copied many times from what she wrote that he isn't pulling ANY weight as far as chores, let alone his own weight. Did you miss the parts where she cooks and cleans after working her double shift, and also does his laundry? Did you miss the part…

No, at this point it's indicative of you. No one believes you actually care about the people oppressed in the caste system. And oh hey, know something super weird? People in that caste system believe in their religious tenets too, and they would also not want you to put your feet on a representation of one of their…

Hey, why is it you think you're talking to a straight girl? I wonder... I wonder... Oh right, you're a kneejerk asshole!

Pathetic. The person who goes to the "you're craaazy!" toolbox is a person who has no other tool. If you don't want people to know you're a scumbag, stop writing comments that drip with scum.

Fuck off, creep.

"The only woman I'm not afraid of is my mommy!" says MWarnerM.

I mean, you literally said the fact that he wants to fuck her every night without any concern about her feeling tired or being busy with something else should make her feel better. How can that make her feel anything but gross and used?

So by "still turned on to you" do you mean by showing you affection and care? Or do you mean "let's fuck, I'm horny"? Because I think you'll admit there's a distinction between the two, and someone wanting to fuck isn't the same as someone wanting to fuck you. And when someone ignores your feelings and doesn't show…

No, you've shown that you think men are entitled to expect sex at any time and in any situation, and that if they get turned down it's not their asking or their behavior leading up to the asking that's the problem, it's the woman. Hey, oh wow, GUESS FUCKING WHAT, she IS allowed to taper off to almost nothing! Because…

First, I have utterly zero interest in your sex life at any point and I'm pretty grossed out that you spent several paragraphs telling me about your sex drive and the toys you've bought to accommodate it. That's beyond fucking inappropriate. And just because your wife doesn't have as great of a sex drive as you…

Wow. You're an asshole and also wrong. Sure, a percentage of the comments are what you indicate. A percentage are not. But I suppose that again we can't talk about the societal impulses that surround women's sexual choices (and not the sexual choices or the women themselves, but I'm guessing that's a distinction lost…

Like you give a fuck about the caste system.

'Fraid so, pal.

"Independent authors!"

Well, short answer: internalized misogyny? I don't think it's a coincidence that those also tend to be the fandoms where female characters are hated, spoken about horribly, constantly slammed for "getting in the way," and agitated off the show.

I think that's mostly true of the big slash ships, yes, but outside of your SuperWhoLock juggernauts and the like, and particularly among authors who don't write exclusively slash, I feel like there's more exploration of gender roles and far less slavish devotion to top or bottom as inherent personal identities.

Wait a minute, you're saying that Jezebel's party line is anti-kinky women? Because everything I've seen there for a while has been "anything sexual a woman chooses to do is feminist, especially sex work, and thus above critical examination," so...

Dobby stretches, sir!

Not really. Slash skews older. The vast majority of people reading and writing it are adults. They're just probably more discreet and more protective about it than kids who've grown up in an age of digital transparency.