I can sort of understand that position, but I think that it's sort of unpleasant that we set up relationships in this sort of way to begin with. My father was never the "man in my life". He was my dad (and still is!), and me dating anyone, man or woman, changes nothing about that. He was always very supportive of…

You are so killing it in this thread.

That is so amazingly well said and succinct! I feel like you've completely articulated what has been nagging at me and bothering me about the whole concept! Thank you!!!

America is all #notallmen and then an hour later "let's get the shotgun out to socially acceptably threaten my daughters' boyfriend."

What the actual fuck. How about instead, teaching the girl to have enough confidence to stand up for herself? I'm all for being supportive of family, but demonstrating to the world that you are in charge of your own damned self is often a big creep-deterrent.

Admittedly I have been lucky judging by my friends' stories! No worries :)

Delicious. May it come to pass.

Because, girls are property. Duh.

Totally agree.

Yeah, I suspect it's the same reason some men are homophobic. They can't stomach the idea of a man making a pass at them like they would a woman.

I like to think such men exist. I chalk it up to a high degree overlap between have been that kind of guy and the chances of a celebrity interview.

You might be in a mood tonight...but I still think you're onto something.

I like your mood.

Don't waste your tears. White wimminz are being held down by the man, doncha know?

Honest to freakin' god.

The idea of "class coffee" pisses me off. School administrators know that many parents work during the day, yet they set these things up anyway, and now you get to feel like a shitty person for not being able to invest in your kid's education or whatever. And notice that it's only supposed to be with the mothers; it's…

Well, it's too late to edit to reflect that now, isn't it? You missed your shot and will forevermore be remembered as a firm supporter of lesbian pride, I'm afraid.

Seriously, just leave. Just stay away from him. He's not unhappy that he's upsetting you. He's unhappy that it's blowing up in his fat lying face. Do you know why he's putting up with your queries and not just ditching you to look for tail elsewhere? It's because he is a LAZY bag of assholes with no game and getting…

Oh, one other thing: she doesn't know about you.