it just takes one word, really? you must be fun.

One last thought, on why I think I was so conflicted at the end of this experiment:

It's totally not. I've worked as a weekend live in nanny, and you definitely still get paid. Even if the job were your residence they still have to pay you. Honestly these people were probably really cheap, and now they are suffering the consequences. This is why you suck it up and pay for good reputable childcare if…

Actually, once they fired her, they could evict her without notice. By evict, I mean they could go ahead and file the eviction lawsuit immediately. Don't know why they didn't. Their legal problem isn't the eviction, it is the fact they apparently weren't paying this woman. In California you have to pay a domestic…

This family did a really terrible job in hiring their nanny. How could they not have done sufficient background checks, before having someone *move into their home*, that they didn't know she was a serial litigant? This seems like it could have easily been avoided with a little more effort in hiring than "you seem…

I think one of my favorite internet creatures is the dude who stereotypes women, can't get a date, and sees no connection between these two phenomena.

oh you had a fake female profile. sorry. didn't realize the anthropological work you had put into this theory. my bad.

Right. Heterosexual, cisgendered, happily married man in his 30's who definitely felt the, "Every girl's friend, no girl's boyfriend," shit in high school/college.

You know what, I have a question, Dr. Nerdlove. So many of these questions that you address boil down basically to "I treat women like objects, but they don't react like objects. Why?" That is to say, so many of your answers end up needing to include baseline information like "He's not your competition because this…

If he hadn't been successful and gotten famous, guaranteed he'd be a self-described nice guy and his texts would be featured on Straight White Guys Texting.

Guess what? The men who really love women and think they're the most amazing people in the world and treat them like goddesses ARE fucking misogynist pigs. The good men are the ones who treat women like actual people.

YOU SAID IT NOT ME.

Like your comment a majority of films fail. Whether made by a man or woman most films tank or under-perform at the box office. Since more men make films more men have films that fail. Only a handful of films make money enough for their entire studio budget to be returned as a profit. By the way the first Twilight…

I hope this doesn't come across as minimizing what happened or as denying that transgender people are very frequently the target of hate crimes, because that is not what I mean to do. But I can also kind of see where the officer is coming from. I have cadaver dogs and even though I'm a civilian handler, we're called…

Wow this is just so awful. I can't imagine what her family is going through right now. I hope they are able to find the person who did this to her.

Well, it does both...which makes it great.

I've just started watching Orange is the New Black. I thought it would hilarious but it's just breaking my heart.

You are the one making a non-sexual picture of a CHILD sexual and THAT is what is disturbing. Should we all wrap ourselves in bubbles and never leave the house "just in case" some perv happens to see us? As a woman, I get that sort of suggestion a lot. Fuck that shit. That sort of shaming is PART of rape-culture…

How is that "solo"? I'm so confused. That's like saying a baby left with two grandparents is "home alone".

Ok, I give up. If you watch video of a comedian telling a joke that goes "that kid should have been [bleep]" and that same comedian follows up with a tweet saying "hey, don't get upset and think I said 'aborted', I actually said 'hummer'" and your response is to think "I bet she said 'aborted'" I'm just not sure we…