I am in love. Or in lust. It’s too early to tell.

I’ve been through this. In 2013, my husband moved us from the midwest to Los Angeles, promptly began fucking a mutual friend, and decided our marriage was over (or, if you believe his initial ramblings ‘I’m not sure I even, like, believe in marriage at all’).

My husband has left me and we are divorcing, not my choice. Looking for any comfort or advice, especially from those who have survived this.

at a previous job, god, i cannot believe i’m saying this, a coworker asked me to help clean up her home computer because it had run out of space and she had no idea how that could be. since i knew she had a son, i had an inkling of what might be taking up all that space. and while i fully expected to find many large…

I guess Flea is more of an Irish Spring man.

Really down, today. First beautiful stretch of days where I live, and everyone I know is travelling for the weekend with a significant other, and I am home alone. The place seems deserted.

GUYS EXCITING NEWS! I don’t know if I’ve told you guys, but I was sexually assaulted when I was 18 which gave me trust issues for YEARS. Couldn’t stand males near me including my dad. Fast forward to this week and my first consentual hookup! No PIV sex. We met online and he’s a virgin and is amazing. He was trembling…

You do have to disclose before matching parts, I agree.

That nurse is right. Everybody has some kinda herpes or other. Most people carry it - be it HSV1, HSV2, or some other related virus - and never know it because they never have symptoms.

It’s weird to me that my coworkers would be more understanding and accommodating than my own physician. I realize I need to get over the hump of meds or no meds (was there, tried it, had an averse set of reactions to them - nonallergic but still very scary and am thus meds-averse right now) but the tough love was a…

Do you...would you maybe...maybe want to marry me? Dream woman?

barley wine is the fucking best

I don’t know if this song applies to your scenario but it’s a good song and I’m putting it right here.

Day drinking outside in the sun is basically how I know winter is over. It’s the bomb. Boo to missing the dude, but yay to day drinking!

It’s my birthday! YAAAY! My first one without the soon-to-be-ex husband. It has been wonderful. Sleeping, reading (I bought a bunch of kindle books), sushi, etc. YAY. Everybody should get divorced — way more naps that way.

Good evening fair Jezzies! Since we’ve seem to have lost that awesome weekly food open thread, what did you make that you were proud of this week? Or, alternatively, what did you attempt to make but fucked up spectacularly?

That cat is a living, breathing work of art. And how wonderful to be so well matched! LOVE when that happens.

A true beauty!

love those eyes!

Good god. (But they must be comfy af), Take a peek at Aerie’s boybriefs. Comfy and lovely and worth it when they have a 10 for $30 sale.