I went through something very very similar. Cross country move, fucking a friend, totally screwing me over. It was the worst.

Someone told me when I was getting divorced, “it’s going to feel like the end of the world until one day it doesn’t.” It was true. That was almost two years ago and I’ve never been happier. You will be ok, I promise. Take care of yourself, feel all your feelings, get a great therapist.

That’s funny- my ex husband and I took a vacation right at the very end and then separated right after. Our couples therapist was out of ideas. But hey Nova Scotia was beautiful! (Our vacation was in August, so yeah thus held true for me)

I never really dated before a year ago (hello ten year relationship and a divorce) so I understand what you are going through. Here’s what I’ve learned in the year and a half since my divorce: modern dating is very dependent on texting. I’ve had a couple guys say that I don’t seem interested in them because I don’t…

I've been sticking to my exercise routine for over two months now! I am down 6 pounds and 3 inches in my waist. I've actually started to enjoy exercise and how good it makes me feel. I don't look dramatically different but I feel a lot more confident. This is the most positive attitude I've taken towards health and…

Yeah when I did some research I saw it was nbd, but I think there is still a lot of social stigma around genital herpes. Even though the risk of transmission is low and it's common, I still feel like I have to disclose.

I’m doing the talk therapy thing now and I’m doing a lot better, luckily my asthma and allergies are pretty well controlled right now but when I'm having an asthma flare my anxiety gets worse. My physician prescribed me medication for anxiety but I never took it. I carried it around until it expired but the idea of…

Last week I was diagnosed with herpes, HSV-2. I would love to hear some positive dating stories from people with herpes. I have read all the empowered, positive articles that my fav feminist sites have to offer- but am still a little nervous about entering the dating world with this new knowledge. I have never had any…

I also have a nut allergy (although thankfully not life threatening) and people really do seem to minimize the anxiety that goes along with that. I have had some bad allergic reactions to a couple medications and I get extremely anxious about taking anything new. I am someone that has panic attacks and anxiety anyway,…

I am feeling this too! I gained a lot of weight while I was married. I’m 32. Last year I lost 20 pounds relatively easily because of divorce and depression and moving to a city where I can walk. Now I’ve been at this weight for about a year and I cannot seem to lose any more weight. I’m still technically obese so I…

Another vote for Aerie! I’ve got plenty of butt and they fit great, sign up for their emails and they always have sales.

I’ve been taking 15 mg Prevacid daily for a few years with no side effects. I had also tried Prilosec but it made me lightheaded.

I was in a similar situation and I had a friend check out some places for me. Is there anyone you know in the area?

Sensodyne and fluoride rinse should help you out in a couple days!

I had casual sex to forget about the dude I'm hung up on and somehow ended up missing him more. Lame. Cheers ladies, I've been day drinking at a barley wine festival.

Siamese cats are crazy and wonderful. My meezer is named Sebastian and his interests include: stealing jewelry, stealing Chapstick and screaming at me when I get home from work. We are soulmates.

Just do it! I'm going to assume you're a woman because of the knitting (sorry if I'm incorrect) but there is data that shows that women that message first go on more dates! Most of the OKCupid dates I've been on have been with guys I've messaged first. Just read their profile and find one thing to ask them about. The…

Like people who say they hate drama always bring the most drama? I hate that.

Congrats on your productivity! I went for a five mile hike today AND went to the grocery store, so I’m pretty damn proud of myself too.

I feel like I’m always getting rid of stuff, yet I’m always still cluttered. I think the game changing concept for me is discarding by item category rather than by room. And the “does this spark joy” question.