It’s not funny. It celebrates and perpetuates rape culture, and as a survivor of such a thing, I can tell you that it’s not funny. To me, these are fear-inducing, even now at age 39 and years of therapy to work on these issues. I still carry with me a fear of being raped and assaulted again, and if I had a daughter (i…

Rape culture is one in which "he said" is always given more weight than "she said," even when "he" has boasted about being a sexual predator.

I feel like (I may be wrong so...) Kara doesn’t need to give instruction on how to solve these problems. She’s just saying “wow it’s annoying that white people are changing language not created by them and not even admitting where it came from” because... Doesn't that seem annoying to you? I'm British and I find it…

Not to excuse or downplay sexism in Tech or Finance, but these are the kinds of stories I really, REALLY would like to see more of in women’s spaces and for feminists to grapple with. I get that its hard being a woman making $100k a year in a job where a man makes $129k, and that it really sucks when some bros want to…

Having worked for male dominated companies for most of my career, this sort of thing happens way too often. It’s amazing how the men who do these things deny them and are convinced that the woman was asking that sort of treatment. The levels of delusion and assumption are staggering.

What could the added value of a show entitled “What Men Really Think” possibly be? I’m bombarded with male opinions about things every day.

The woman who CLAIMS she birthed me (still hoping a poor princess got herself in trouble & left me on the doorstep & will be back for me any day now) is ATTENDING A TAPING OF HIS SHOW IN SEPTEMBER. I did not accept her invitation to come along. She insists he's SOOOOO wonderful to women. Meanwhile on family feud he…

Snape is just about the Nicest Guy(TM) there is.

These dudes do NOT have homies. They do not have friends with wives. They do not have friends with girlfriends. They do not have friends who talk to their own sisters or mothers (except to ask for caretaking). The easiest way to get this way is to be socially isolated. And the easiest way to be socially isolated is to…

“But then I didn’t send it because I’m too classy!”

“i offered to help your career” is a thing a weird producer tells you before asking you to the casting couch

You hit the nail on the head. Only years later did I realize how scary my first boyfriend was after we broke up, because he was a skinny nerdy kid into comics and Keanu Reeves movies. That shit comes in ALL forms

where do these people find the time to write such long insane rants

I saw this earlier when I was on twitter and I was just like bruhhhh wtf. Also that “I even offered to help!!!!!!1111” part is what all fake ass male feminists/allies say when they want to pass off their predation as help.

Dudes like this unnerve the hell out of me. It’s like a wall of “trying” that gets increasingly mean and frantic. They are like the velociraptors in the first Jurassic Park, just jumping on the electric fence, trying to find a weak spot. And they NEVER admit that they are the creepy, stalker assholes that they are. In…

I have a very clear memory, from when I was about 12, of my mother angrily telling me about a family we knew from church, and how their horrible daughter, who was a few years years older than me, had “ruined her family” by reporting that her stepfather had molested her. It didn’t even occur to my mother, or anyone…

shame, and the accompanying guilt, are such paralyzing emotions. thank you persisting on your journey and for sharing your truth. it really does make a difference.

I had an abortion at Planned Parenthood earlier this week. I chose them despite the slightly cheaper competitor in the same town and the protesters outside of the Planned Parenthood. There was an escort who walked me past them (and who laughed when my boyfriend took an extra lap around the block to intentionally spew…