Stay strong and don't let them bring you down. Fuck them - you're doing just fine. :)

Feeling incredibly down and shitty, for the first time in a long while. On Friday, the CE at the company where I’m temping mocked me. I have a bad habit of dropping my g’s when I talk (I swear I’m trying to work on it). She complained the dishwasher hadn’t been run yet, and I was there eating lunch so I said, “I’ll…

Go to the police. Bring every ounce of proof and ask what you can do.

I’m not sure “black dude” is really an important descriptor here. More like, “crazy, mean dude.”

O to the M to the G. Lurked for years. YEARS I tell you! These open threads are my favorite thing. Read them most weekends. I love that you provide so much love and support for one another and your lipstick, money management and pube-maintanance insights are on point! Also, you’re a bunch of funny mofos. Alas, tonight…

I don’t know... I think if she has to face it in court, she might realize she’s taking things too far and get help/back off. If she hasn’t had repercussions for the last 16 years, she might have been able to normalize the behavior in her head.

Whoa! 16 years later? Document, and then file for a restraining order?

Read The Gift of Fear by Gavin De Becker. This woman is stalking you and your husband. I read this book when I had / have a stalking ex. You have to protect yourself.

I’m torn between wanting everything to work out, and just wanted to say fuck it

Kinky boots!

Anyone else have this problem? My husband broke off an engagement to another woman over 16 years ago. Then he met me. Since we have been together, this former fiance’ has called him numerous times, has come to my place of work to confront me, and even as lately as today has innundated my husband with email discussing…

Where can I get a pair of those boots?

Uhm... excuse me? Lady, this is MY bridal shower to throw.

I just had my first cognitive behavioral therapy appointment this week and it went really well. Even for an intro session we really clicked, and it’s great to hear someone who really understands my anxiety and doesn’t just think I’m “crazy” like most of my family and friends think.

You did the right thing cutting him off. Two months seems like a long time but really it isn’t, especially after ten years. You may not miss him (the person), but I’m sure you miss the relationship and that’s normal.

I had to tell my ex to stop texting me and writing me. He’s been sending me messages about how much he misses but tells our mutual friends that he’s in love with his new girlfriend (they started dating 2 days after he moved out of our home). Anyway, after two and a half weeks of me ignoring all his non-logistical…

Oh, and in this week of Rachel Dolezal, I should probably just say up front, for those of you who are meeting me for the first time, I’m a feminist gay man, who gets so much love, support and encouragement from Jezebel, that I’ve quit all those catty gay websites and just hang out here.

You guys, I’m fostering a rabbit this week that was kept in a dirty, wire-bottomed hutch and then dumped in a park. All four of her feet have infected open sores, one so bad that she can’t put weight on it, and she needs at least 3 different medications every day. But she’s still a sweetheart and hobbles up for pets…

Everyone who has given me encouragement and moral support over this crazy journey of just picking up and completely uprooting my life at age 38: THANK YOU! I think it has all finally come together!

This is a spectacularly 80s/90s video. Spectacular.