Is this a shock to you, Doug? Or to anyone?

Meanwhile, the much cooler Girl Scouts of America (which, besides having enslaved America with Thin Mints, also has a badge for learning about queer leaders in the USA and no ban on trans* or gay or bi scout leaders, members, or volunteers) had this to say: ".... k."

Not all of us are so demanding. Sheesh. I'd be fine with the river of liquor they allegedly have up there, so long as they replace the liquor with Nutella on alternating days.

Ugh, those foam bras are the bane of my life. Thanks so much! I'll have to get one of those bags (I do everything by hand right now... pain in the ass.)

Hell, give me FOUR pros.

Read that book. It came off as somewhat propagandized in some spots, but it still rang a LOT truer than the trash that was Memoirs of a Geisha.

What about those super fabulous lace-cup-and-only-lace-cup bras with the underwire that make your tits look awesome, but that you're super nervous about washing, because you're afraid it'll get messed up?

It was brought up as the possible cause of a minor physiological thing. I never had any actual tests done because, frankly, the physician told me it'd be a waste of time. At first she tried to tell me it was because of my "masculine" finger arrangement (much longer ring than index on both hands), and I was going to…

As a very high-testosterone female (for a female), I've always attributed various aspects of my life (sexual and nonsexual) to the weird abundance I have of that hormone. How long has your wife taken it, if you don't mind my asking? Did she notice a personality change?

No, I wouldn't think so, it's just a descriptor of your tastes.

The trouble is that not all monamorous people are pumping pills into each other. Hell, if you haven't met a polyamorist who's lost interest, sexually speaking, in one or more of his/her partners, I'll show you someone who's never met a polyamorist. Lots of people just get BORING after a while, doesn't matter who it is.

Yeah, the "you need variety" thing doesn't necessarily mean new partners. Some people, once in a relationship, tend to be less sexually attracted to others outside the relationship (I know I'm like that.) But yes, vanilla sex (and any other kind of sex, in overdoses) can get really, really boring after a while. It's…

... I'm confused.

"we as a society eliminate cruel homophobia without jettisoning heteronormativity - which is the need for social norms and institutions to be strongly oriented around the problem and the blessing that sex between men and women makes babies"

Ditto. As a 17 year old I dated a 15 year old. She was 14 when we met. Granted, I was 16 then too, but I don't think that's creepy.

Don Juan as Byron wrote him was, actually, an ironic reversal of gender roles of the time, in many ways.

"Do you bite you're thumb at me, sir? I say, do ewe bite you're thumb, sir?"

I do not like them, Sam-I'm-not.

This is actually way way better than the three-person'd god thing, publish that shit.

This is true.