Which lemon cake recipe? Is it the yogurt one? I HAVE TO KNOW, WHICH ONE IS IT?!?!

I’m going to be one of those people I hate and offer advice based on precious little info: if it doesn’t improve, try feeding a raw meat diet. I only say this because my cat had terrible digestive issues for years. She was on prescription food, prednisone, something similar to prevacid, allergy medication, vitamin b…

This makes me happy. I’m going to hang onto that feeling as long as I can before I slide back toward abject terror at the thought of this idiot possibly becoming president.

Ted Nugent.

Preach. Together for 10 years, married for a little over two. Broke up because he had a wandering dick that I honestly had (genuinely) no idea about. I KNOW judgey assholes were speculating about what a cold shrew I must have been, and that in some cases, he fed that line of thinking. And though it’s been a couple of…

Yeah! lauren.bowman.7@gmail.com. I’ll look for your email!

Solidarity, friend. I hate to hear that anyone else has ever been through this, but it’s nice to know I’m not some special, awful snowflake that won the shittiest prize ever. I hope you managed to get through it and come out ok on the other side.

Honestly, I don’t know of a way to private message on Kinja, which blows. But I can reply to your comment with my email address, and as long as you dismiss the comment, no one will see it. That’s a really crappy workaround. Let me know if you’d like it so we can chat-I know that, for me, it helped to have someone to…

Aww, thanks! I would actually love to go to a Jez meetup. What’s the best way to keep up with when those things happen??

I’ve been through this. In 2013, my husband moved us from the midwest to Los Angeles, promptly began fucking a mutual friend, and decided our marriage was over (or, if you believe his initial ramblings ‘I’m not sure I even, like, believe in marriage at all’).

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. I know how this feels- I confirmed my husband’s affair this way. I don’t know what is going on with your husband, and it may be completely different. Here’s my fully unsolicited advice: marriage counseling. Regardless of whether he was doing something shady, he was dishonest with…

You are truly a paragon of womanhood and a model for us all to aspire to. Especially the frozen lasagna/getting high part.

I work directly with students at UCLA.

No matter what I am doing, if it’s not watching Veronica Mars in my jammies, I wish I was watching Veronica Mars in my jammies.

You obviously believe you are in a position to critique and criticize other’s interpretations of the bible. What aspect of scripture supports that you, as a woman and regular human being, are in a position to criticize other people’s understanding and expression of their own faith?

I think the photos they submit to the pageants are the most disturbing part. That or the rampant sexualization.

My Saturday afternoon so far is falling asleep to toddlers and tiaras reruns. I can’t understand why I find this tripe entertaining. I think pageants for little kids are generally awful, and severely dislike the idea that I’m supporting them in any way. I’ve always wondered if I’m alone in this, it actually makes me…

Honestly, if doing it yourself proves painful and injures you, I’d pay to have it done (I do realize not everyone can afford it), give it a shot with another form of wax, or move to some other form of hair removal. I screwed up waxing my bikini line with that pine-smelling microwave wax and it was legit awful. There…

I don’t personally know or anything, but I’ve heard if you go for the weed sour gummy worms, they barely taste like anything but delicious sour gummy worm-ness. But you have to be careful if you love sour gummy works. Because then you’ll end up stoned out of your gourd. Or so I’ve heard.

I moved from Chicago to LA, and now work at UCLA. Keep an eye on their job postings (that’s how I found my job), but don’t bother looking until a couple months pre-move because the jobs they post have a pre-set expiration after 6 weeks (they can renew/repost if no one is found for the position). I lived on the east…