Don't worry about me cry, lol, I felt much better afterward. I'm really glad to hear someone else is going through what I am, I thought he just wasn't right for me but I am amazed again and again at how awesome he is. I read about "transference" and I think I was doing that - assigning traits to him that he didn't…

That's awesome! I hate men who harass, they are the lowest scum. Good for you for putting them in the same position they are trying to put women in. I will try to use that kind of stuff, too!

I got some more soups and mashed potatoes and ice cream and pudding tonight, so I feel much better :)

I got some wisdom teeth pulled Wednesday, and ran out of soup/soft things to eat. I've been trying to take small bites of stuff so I don't have to chew it, but it's difficult. I AM HUNGRY!!!

I'm the same way! I love so many things, but there's nothing that really pulls on my constantly. It's frustrating! and ended up with me spending 7 yrs in college trying to figure it all out, and I still don't know!

I only meant that I don't like being too direct when it comes to talking about sex, its just a turn-off. Like, for instance, if he says "You wanna have sex?", that'd be a huge turn off, even if I did, indeed, want to have sex. I prefer if someone is a little more indirect, like "You wanna go come over?"

I stopped speaking to my father, and I feel like whenever I run into him at some family event it will be very awkward, but I just can't stand him. I've been reading up on it, and it seems he has narcissistic personality disorder. I'm ordering a book about it that I will then give to my siblings if its the case. He was…

Thank you for the e-hugs. Your comment is making me cry a little, but I think I'm emotional today for some reason.

How do you mean you turn it back on them to shut them down? Teach me your ways, oh wise one.

reply! I'm curious!

I am whiney today. Apologies.

Mine did when I lost weight, and I lost it quickly so the skin was slightly looser for a while after. They seem to be more perky now. Apparently, you shouldn't lose weight too quickly or your skin will become saggier, but if you lose weight slowly this doesn't happen. I don't know if that's true but I've heard it from…

Pregnancy scares are scary! I'm sorry for all your stress. I will hope that the test was in fact negative and that you don't have to deal with an abortion.

Hmmm but were these tea partiers the same people pushing the sexual revolution? I don't know. If I convert, I will be very sad with myself.

Of course there are older people who are liberal, but I'm wondering if the majority of older people are conservative. I don't really know where to look this stuff up. I only meant that maybe the single women are more for Obama because more single women are young than old, whereas more older women are married than…

That's a really really good point. I understand that he is in pain cause I feel it, too, and knowing someone else is hurting worse than me doesn't really make my pain go away, I guess I was pointing out that he only cares about his own pain, if that makes sense. From what I read, narcissists think only of their own…

This is spot on - my dad is a huge narcissist, and my oldest two siblings are the alcoholic brother and the depressed sister, and they have always reminded me of my dad. Everything comes back to them, and they have life worse than anyone, just like my dad.

Thanks. My sisters and I have tried, but my mother is in complete denial. It's scary how much denial she's in. For instance, every time I visit home from college, the table on the back porch is covered in beer cans (different beer cans each time). My mom says there's hardly ever beer cans out there and that my brother…

Maybe married women are just older on average? I don't know the actual demographics, but younger people are more liberal and more educated than older people, in general. Younger people are going to be more horrified by the Republican party than the older generations.

Yup!