I hope it didn't sound from my comment like I treat him badly because of his alcoholism. I do my best to be nice to him just for the sake of being nice and not making him upset, but he is just rude and disrespectful to everyone. I guess I'm not in a position to help him, and he certainly isn't asking for help. But I…

How do you help someone (I'm talking about someone in my family) who is a complete asshole, when drinking or not, get help for alcoholism? He drinks several packs a day, and says he can't fall asleep unless he's drunk (right.....). I know he's miserable, his life sucks but it honestly is his depression and bad…

I'm sorry you're going through all of that. I think its natural to relapse quite a few times before finally gaining control over something, so don't get discouraged about your mother, just encourage her as best you can - that's all you can do.

I think I would only use this option for eyelashes if I 1) Had a lot of extra money lying around, and 2) continue to get anymore sties. I was wearing more makeup last year than normal, and got one in each eye because I wasn't getting all the make-up off at night. The doctor recommended these eye scrub pads at Walmart…

I would not spend this much on eyelashes, ever! Give that shit to charity!

that was awesome

I was wondering this too - I wear powder, blush, eyeshadow, mascara, and usually eye liner and use an eyebrow pencil - this literally takes three minutes! Five if I wanna look extra made-up. I think when I first started wearing makeup the most it ever took was 10 minutes.

Were you in Alabama last year? I think I remember it was Alabama that had dozens of tornadoes form across the state - we had a ton in MS and TN too, but AL was crazy! I got caught in the storm unable to drive my car that night for a while, it was terrifying cause I couldn't find out from the radio where the tornado…

I'm not sure if you're trolling, cause I myself can generally figure out if what I'm saying to someone is disrespectful or not, but:

I think what you did was awesome! I dream of punching or even slitting throats for hours after I get harassed it makes me so angry, I'd give anything to have the physical strength to actually defend myself like that.

I think its awesome that you do something when you see it - no one expects you to not be scared, these men are complete strangers to you and for all you know are carrying weapons or have friends nearby, so I wouldn't feel at all ashamed that you're scared, that just makes it more awesome that you do something in spite…

Yea, I figured I was better off - if he was treating me like that on the dance floor how would he have treated me in bed?? Of course, its possible he just thought the more drunk girl seemed like more fun and that I seemed uptight, who knows?

Lol, I have to agree with withsharpclaws on that - I don't have it in me to say those kinds of things to someone. You have to remember the intense slut shaming women face, and how we're expected to be coy, not straightforward. Yes, this makes it hard for men, but it makes it hard for women, too.

Do you mean you don't think ripped guys have a complex? I only meant that some people will only pursue such physical fitness because of deep seated insecurities. Others do it for other, healthy reasons, I just thought maybe this guy was insecure.

Thanks for the response. I wasn't sure if other countries were having the same debates or not. It just seems to paternalistic to have a ban on any female being in combat - no one ever said to make the entry standards lower, only to allow women the dignity and respect of equal opportunity. Hopefully these women will…

I am amazed at guys having to be told to grab a condom. I've never had that happen, and I think I would just get dressed and walk out if they tried to do it without a condom. The only times I've done it with a guy without a condom (and only when I'm absolutely not ovulating and only gonna go bareback for a minute or…

Thank you. I hate when people act like you need a "good" reason to have an abortion, it implies you don't actually have the right to an abortion, but are only granted the privilege when the people who are better than you say its okay.

I mean, this guy had a body like a god - it was halloween and he went shirtless. But still, maybe he had a complex? Some ripped guys do have a complex, that's for sure.

AWESOME comment.

That relative of yours, I have to say, is disgusting. I am all for getting horrible people you happen to be related to out of your life. You only live once, and no one needs that poison in their life.