I'm so sorry that happened to you. I totally see how that would make you apprehensive about online dating.

Figure out what's so tough about not dating. (Do you feel lonely? Do you feel left out because all your friends are coupled up? Do you crave that kind of attention?) Whatever it is, start from there.

Who am I kidding, I'm browsing okc right. now....

I think you might just need to give them time to adjust to the new feeling-great you. I'm not sure what your relationship with your family was like when you were suffering from your mental illness, but I do know from personal experience that mental illnesses can almost traumatize the people close to the mentally ill…

Stef to Benny, deadpan: *sigh* "You really are worthless, aren't you?" and "let's go get you some food. Some ribs, or something."

Yeah, the whole Blaine/Ducky dichotomy is missing the point. How sexy, a choice between a real, live potato and a "nice guy" stalker. No thanks. I'll take option 3.

Hell yes. Love of Secretary and Spader is as good a basis for friendship as anything. And I don't mean that facetiously at all. Seriously.

I'm watching Scandal for the first time and am finishing up season two tonight. That is exactly the problem with Fitz — he expects Olivia to exist in stasis for him, to drop everything and come running at his beck and call, and to never have anything more important in her life. It's pretty disgusting behavior from any…

Guuuuuuuhhhhh. This whole scene is just too much. James Spader completely erased the line between pervy and insanely hot in that film.

Also, I bet Scott Foley is all anti-Fitz and Olivia because of the way things went down with Jennifer Garner. Or, I spend too much time thinking about these things.

I love me some Scandal, but NO ONE TALKS LIKE THAT. It makes one's head spin. Also, I'm sort of over Huck and his torment. And Quinn and her downward spiral into psychosis. I'd much rather see Scott Foley sans shirt.

I choose a polyamorous relationship with Pretty in Pink James Spader and Secretary James Spader.

I like James Spader because you just KNOW that he is some kinda realllyyy dirty.

Secretary... man, was he hot in that movie. he was also sexy as hell in Boston Legal.

I win. I win scandal this week.

Jan and Mellie of need to form an unholy alliance of well-coiffed, scorned wives who attended law school and speak in an aggressive, quiet rage-filled manner. It would be terrifying and beautiful.

Yes. I never understood why Andie turns down Stef in Pretty in Pink. I would have been all over that.

It's the voice. Bald, puffy, bespectacled? I don't give a shit. I could listen to him speak forever.

I can't believe Cyrus and James are still together but they know how to cute up a scene.