All-the-bright-futures
All-the-bright-futures
All-the-bright-futures

That is absolutely true! I too have amazing orgasms (every time) and nearly always multiples (many; 12 to his one? something like that) but it's because I've learned how to get into/stay in the zone, and has nothing to do with how adept my partner is.

They're happy, though. They may not understand play in the context of "with humans" but they play with other dogs, in dog ways. And they defs understand love and affection. And I think they appreciate having a house and a yard and big soft dog beds and a couch probably more than any other dog I've ever had.

My dogs grew up in a shelter in Lebanon and don't even know what a ball is. They have no idea. You can throw or kick a ball and they don't even look. Toys are meaningless to them, poor sods.

Plus, the great thing about epilating (and waxing, I guess, but epilating is easier) is that over time less and less hair grows back. I have practically none now. I do my pits maybe twice a year, my legs maybe 4 times, and it's only a few stray hairs anyway. (Plus really light - am a redhead.) I mean, that is after 20

Oh same here. But that was after the baby/toddler stage for us; you know, school age. Before that, my mum had three under four and I THINK that was a nightmare. Whereas, for me as a parent, my daughter was never a nightmare.

Oh my god, it is not so hard, having a kid! Just have one and you're good - one kid just fits into your life. (I understand more becomes more of a challenge. Only have the one myself; kinda perfect.) If you don't turn into the obsessive-compulsive kind of mom, but just relax and take the baby with you, but not like a

I gave my daughter A Kid's First Book About Sex when she was about ten. It's a great sex-positive book for kids, much more about the pleasure of sex (and masturbation) and relationships than about the "how are babies made" aspects. She did not want to discuss it at that point. But not long thereafter, I came upon her

Okay, I think our main and probably only difference here is that the only phrase in the entire two paragraphs that mentions her upbringing is "in the art world of downtown Manhattan" which, as a person who grew up herself, and has raised a daughter in "the art world(s) of _____" doesn't raise red privilege flags for

Yes, for sure she is all of those things, but that's not what she's talking about in that quote, and that's not, I think, where her attitude is coming from. She is saying that she grew up in an environment where LGBTQ people are a normal and accepted part of society, and I'm saying, that's not privileged, that is in

Maybe Manhattan is privileged in a way that no Canadian city can manage, but I just feel like her upbringing, as described, is not so different from my daughter's NOT privileged (ie, actually poor, inner-city school) upbringing, where absolutely, "no one hid their sexual orientation." My daughter's godmothers are gay.

I dunno. My daughter certainly didn't have the privilege of Manhattan or anything, but art world yes, in a poverty stricken way. So we knew a lot of LGBTQ people. I remember being at a party with her, she must have been around 5, and her asking the woman next to us "Which woman are you with?" The woman replied gently

Yeah, I neither love nor hate my body. It's a fine body, which is a viewpoint I was late getting to, unfortunately. I'm 50 and it's a recent acceptance. I look back at pictures of myself at 25, 30 and think "Why did you hate that body? I can't even imagine ever being so beautiful, and yet you hated THAT?" (That's me

Yes. You speak for us all. My love for Johnny lasted longer than my love for my (ex)husband. But I can't go on.

I woke up yesterday at 11:00 after a long night of great fun with my fwb, who left in the middle of the night allowing me to then take up the whole bed, scavenged leftovers from our debauched feast the night before, poured the leftover whisky into my tea, and spent the day watching whatever netflix presented to me.

Really? That's wild! Who are these people?? What kind of sex lives do they have? I admit to being really attached to my iphone, and yeah, I am one of those people who immediately whips it out as soon as I get off the metro, and you know, every 10 minutes throughout the day, but some things are...sacrosanct! For fuck's

Anecdotally, I find sex is better now that I'm 50 than it ever was when I was in my 20s. I mean, it's better now than ever before. Haven't hit menopause yet, though, so maybe that will change. But I doubt it. Because honestly I'm also more interested in sex now than I ever have been as well. Also, my body image is

And what about those of us who don't live in the good ol' USA?? Don't we count? Do we not want love? If you prick us, do we not bleed? Ain't I a woman???

Totally! I'm 52 and shop with my 19 year old daughter. We sometimes wear the same things and I really don't see a problem with that. Yeah, we don't wear them the same way, necessarily, and for sure she looks better! But I will fucking wear black mini-skirts and biker boots till I'm 90 (or as long as my legs look

It's when everybody gets off, even the women. It's when it's not all about the guy thrusting his cock into her shaved pussy in close up. It's when there's a fighting chance she could be enjoying it too, instead of looking fucking bored and obviously faking. It's not a tough concept to grasp, really.