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Right now, 'cause I haven't bought a cover for my cast and 'cause standing up hurts, I am employing and interesting "lie awkwardly on towels with head in shower and try and wash hair" method to washing. I don't recommend it.

What do you do when your friend (who has asperger's) does something kinda shitty and you're upset about it, but talking to them just leads to "but I feel bad too, because I made you feel bad!"? I mean, how do you handle that? Suggestions very welcome :/

Such is the gloriously changeable and varied nature of our species.

In my experience, yes. But my experience isn't everyone's.

I regularly tell people: the other side to me not caring about your sexual relationships is me NOT CARING ABOUT YOUR SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS.

I don't know anything other than what's in this article, so based on this here's hoping Thomas Blige makes a full recovery. Abuse is awful enough when it doesn't turn this dangerous. Not to mention that it can't be fun having a load of total strangers know some of the most awful details of your life.

It's not that either. A contributing factor, for sure. But "explanation" implies it explains her choice to abuse, and it simply doesn't.

"A woman has confronted her female abuser! This isn't about me! There aren't any men in this! QUICK. SOMEONE, MAKE THIS ABOUT ME!"

"We just find you ugly and assume, correctly, you have shitty lifestyle habits and lack willpower."

You are insane. Just a heads up.

I like porn. I thought my ex was fucking hot. I watched porn. He watched porn. Great fun was had by all.

I'm very sorry you've had these experiences. People aren't all like that though, honestly. Have you considered therapy/better friends? I'm not being facetious - it just sounds like you've had a shitty lot and maybe talking to someone non-judgemental would help.

Speak entirely for yourself.

That's all kinds of stupid. My best friend in the world is larger than I am, but I think she's freaking beautiful because she IS. The two aren't mutually exclusive.

Well that's an absolutely lovely story. Congrats :)

Ditto. If that makes us the worst though, the world is a hell of a lot nicer than I'd thought. So we've got that to be thankful for.

I've never watched this, but I am considering starting. I have to ask first though: are any of the characters actually likeable? Do any of them act in decent ways, or at least only murder people when absolutely necessary?

You won't regret it. *wipes tear*

Hahaha! All is clear.