Black girls get the least care of all. It’s terrible. White people dismiss them for obvious sexist and racialized reasons, and many Black folks are so entrenched in protecting Black men and boys (something that grew out of very legitimate fears and reasoning) that Black girls are sacrificed and abandoned. We need,…

PREACH.

I’m super-close with my sibs who are 15 and 16 years younger than me - but I kinda raised them for a while, and I’m not thirsty trash like Samantha Grant, so there’s that.

“Freudian Trashy” is my new favorite term and concept.

I have SUCH an enormous crush on him.

Yeah, he’s had a reputation as a creepy fuck for a LONG time.

No, the Worst is how “led” keeps getting spelled as “lead” - if the second word is being pronounced as the first, you’re referring to a fucking metal. If you want to refer to leading in the past tense? IT’S “LED”, DINGUSES!

Oh man - I don’t blame you for being creeped out. I would have had a stroke out of sheer paranoia. Any psycho could be watching!

I think this is partly a class thing? I’m white as hell, but I grew up in neighborhoods ranging from actual projects to lower-middle-class, and YOU DAMN BET we closed our blinds or curtains. I only saw the no-curtains crap when I wandered through “good” white neighborhoods, and it still creeps me out. My Mom actually…

That shirt is AWFUL. If you really do get invited to the cookout, do NOT wear a damn shirt patting yourself on the back for it. The photo of you dancing with the Uncle or Aunt should be cherished and kept to yourself, and is the only acceptable long-term souvenir.

Gallagher Brother Feuds are my favorite thing in celebrity news, anytime. They’re always just hilariously bitchy and petty, and those two can hold a grudge against each other for an eternity.

You’re the best, Rooo. <3

I love ICTMN, and this is heartbreaking. I hope so much that this is resolved quickly.

What should she do about the rat-face, though?

You really are setting the bar - my memory is great, I can find the receipts much of the time, but I get so deranged-angry trying to reply to some of these idiots that I have to walk away (literally, I lose the ability to type sometimes. It’s embarrassing). You have the blessed combination of memory, research, and…

YEP. My husband recently re-watched it,and I warned him that is was going to be really disappointing (outside of Tim Curry, who really is awesome). He somewhat knew that, but he didn’t realize just how true my prediction was. He was kinda sad after watching . I think the new one looks a million times better. I also…

This is also depressingly informative - I can easily dig up more. Her “comedy sketch” with Margaret Cho is also fairly awful - like, yeah Katy Perry is herself problematic as anything, but to respond to “I Kissed a Girl” with a sketch depicting her getting sexually assaulted? Uh, very not okay.

Oh man - gods help you if you deride one of their beloved avatars of White Feminism. When I explained that I severely dislike Amanda Palmer, for good reasons (yes, I can get receipts!), I was labeled self-hating, JUST JEALOUS BECAUSE I WANT HER HUSBAND FOR MYSELF, jealous of her success - you name it. It was somehow…

Since my name doesn’t in any way shorten to Becky, it’s largely just Idle Internets Speculation for me. :D

I only learned about this recently, and as a white girl, I can honestly say I had no idea. Maybe it’s also a generational thing? I’m in my 40's, and while I’m not against giving head, I’m not going to do it unless I really care about someone or it’s part of a reciprocal situation.