There are no bad kinks, only bad kinksters! (this includes fetishes that cannot be acted upon in real life - certain chat rooms exist for a reason)

Exactly this!! I have a ton of kinkster friends, and springing this on someone this way is not okay according to all of them. Like, hardcore, potentially physically/psychologically dangerous kinks need to be approached in discussion beforehand, NOT in early-dating sexting with no prior discussion.

I feel like Feinstein and Minnelli would have the BEST dinner parties. Like, can you imagine?!

Thank you so, so much for writing this. I have been wanting a way to explain to my fellow white folks why these comments are not only misogynistic ashattery, but deeply racist. This is far clearer than anything I have been able to say, and this link will be saved.

Locomotive Jones is a troll, btw.

No, I would not like to sit closer to you. I did not ask you for that tree, by the way, especially since it squeezed out of a far-too-organic orifice. Also, I’m going to go back to the living room now - I don’t think we should take any more “quick walks to see the sunset”. You’ll have to talk to my parents about me…

You know, even if her account of abuse is true, she’s still personified bullshit. I had some pretty serious awful through much of my early life, and I have CPTSD, as do other folks who grew up in tough situations. You know what we do? GET SOME THERAPY. We do NOT put on blackface and pretend it’s the right thing to do.…

I love this so much.

OH GODS THIS. Like, it literally made me feel queasy and worried, and that is EXACTLY why. It’s like, why are you so needy and invasive, noseless Sensitive New Age Guy? Why are you so desperate for my validation and attention? Can you please put some damn pants on?!

I very much recommend this short film about Ama:

I have sort of a weird opposite problem - my husband is all about “deep cleaning”, but he can NOT just do normal maintenance stuff, like take out the fucking trash or maybe not leave hair all over the sink. I LOATHE his “deepcleans” because everything ends up in the wrong place (we’ve lived in the same place, with…

Rick Scott is just a genuinely evil person. One or two small changes in his brain, and I honestly think he would be a direct serial killer instead. As it is, he kills indirectly.

Trolls are a huge problem, and I’ve seen some awful shit on the old GM sub-blogs over the years. That said, given how bad I know it could be, you all must be doing some pretty solid modding. Kudos, and I will keep reading for as long as you all write!

Yep. I’m a looong-time commenter on assorted sub-blogs, and my profile is technically a burner because a few years back there was a horrible flood of trolls who were actually doxxing people and harassing them outside of the Gawker sites. It still happens occasionally, and it always sucks - apparently there are pages…

Better than that, he actually says “Unos, dos, tres, catorce!”. So he effectively actually says “Some, two, three, fourteen!”. It’s gibberish.

This is so horrible. I hope justice is served in full.

EXACTLY. I think she’s an asshole, but I also do strongly suspect she’s in a horrible situation. Both can be independently true.

Scott Stapp would also like you to ignore the time he passed out drunk on stage and tried to play it as him being “overwhelmed” by the moment, and he would also like you to forget this:

I cannot stop laughing at this photo.

Seriously. Expecting police departments to competently investigate themselves is, at this point, like expecting a unicorn to deliver you money. Truly independent investigation boards need to be the norm, and penalties need to be harsh.