Where did I scold anyone?

That recognition of positive transmutation that you ask for is here:

"But despite the misogyny seeding your identification with particular constructions of femininity, the examination of female, male, gay, and straight identity that followed for you is what undermined your conception and…

Ok cool

According to you, you are not a woman, but you specifically engage in certain actions that you have constructed as essentially womanly, or feminine. You state some VERY vague ideas of "admirable womanly style" which is only defined by a focus on a hypothetical appearance that is an "extension" of their essential…

Thank you!

Do you think I do not have any empathy for the lack of accessible role models the OP describes? If so, on what do you base that assertion?

"All this is to say that, for me, as a gay man who appropriates women"

I think you appropriated the mannerisms and attitude of the anti-Diva because she is a role model for continuing to operate in society even though you possess a hated femininity and are subject to open and socially sanctioned aggression. Comparatively, you are now appropriating the mannerisms and attitude of the Diva…

And that's just a commenter. How about the Blogger Man finger wagging at Selena for not upholding religious traditions of feminine modesty in a "place of worship". What the heck is special about a place of worship? Like, bro do u even feminist?

Right? Like where the hell am I right now?

Jia, why are you being mean to Mariah Carey? Is she not prioritizing her luxuries to your liking?

This comment you've made is a great example of how a false equivalence is constructed.

Step 1: characterize a complicated situation with a singular pronoun:
"before someone spews some bull shit that this only happens..."
The operative word there is "this".

Step 2: redefine the complex sequence of events abstracted into a…

PEOPLE ARE ALLOWED TO USE THEIR RELIGIOUS OBJECTS FOR WHATEVER RELIGIOUS CEREMONY THEY WANT.

I have always been very certain that my constant habit of dancing in public is where my white male privilege really stands out the most, which is totally whack.

You're an idiot.

"Is it bad if I say no?"

Grab the ball, run across the court, and dunk.

Woman dumps cheating boyfriend to start romance with Internet.

"We consummate life and lose it because in some long-ago time someone, in the desire to unload his cock inside us, was nice, chose us among women."

Hahahahahahaha. If only men weren't human, then this really simplistic yet appealing grrl-power pseudo feminist construction of male sexuality would be representative of…

Yay for you! You go glenn coco!

Good! I like having an excuse to keep my blood exactly where it is at all times. If I wasn't already quite the slutty duck I'd see this as a reason to get some dick pronto.