I agree with this sentiment overall; but for me it depends upon the various living arrangements.

I concur that all of this is true.

Right. So you have no counter argument than “i don’t believe in it.” So, your concept is wholly unsupported and unnecessary. Bye.

Academically, “toxic masculinity” or hegemonic masculinity IS a thing.

That’s true, but the while masculine performance piece will get WAY more support.

I think we would get a grant. . . from a liberal, social democracy — a country that supports equity and the arts.

Isn’t that just the best?

That’s true. If you use the Law and Order Narration Voice, it’s scary. In the NZ accent, it’s like “d’awww. OK. no pictures.”

I have not yet seen a performance of jinni pulling off underpants, but if it’s anything like her disappointing feminine performance, I don’t know. . . ;)

This was my thought, too. Also, if that’s how people want to present, then that’s alright with me. I don’t see the ‘fun’ in that stuff.

That’s exactly right.

well, you have a point. if it was dramatic underwear, you obviously need dramatic make up to match, and perhaps this sales person just didn’t think jinni could pull those underpants off if she couldn’t do matching make up.

girl, why aren’t you doing feminine performance the way people who are looking at you want? disrespectful!

I’m also happy about this!

Right?

i have a gmail for my jezebel friends. it’s zeetalzee.

I really had to think on this and ‘categorise my people.’

None of these folks know what they are missing, nor do they know how ridiculous their lifestyle is and how foolish they look. It’s an amazing amount of obliviousness.

It might be worth seeing if there’s another doctor (within her network) that you can go to and get some second opinions. You’ll not be a burden to new eyes.

Exactly. :) That sort of sentiment makes me laugh!