Same thing that happened in the Jeffrey Dahmer case when his Asian victim is yelling at the cops to help him and Dahmer’s all “Oh, lover’s quarrel, ha ha” and the white cops go, “We got you, fellow white man, no worries.” and walk off. Leaving that young man to be killed.

You’re standing yourself up as a victim on a story about a man who has admitted to misconduct and expecting civility? You’re making this about you, and it’s not.

By all sorts of people or just by certain men?

You should start sending out resumes for other jobs but definitely don’t quit until you have one, obviously. Nonprofits have the tightest budgets in the game, as you know, and they hired you with a budget in mind. They’re not going to increase it, and they probably expect you to move on rather than give you a raise.…

As an MSU graduate, I am disgusted with her response, and have made that clear to the board of trustees, who I am also disgusted with.

He reminds me of my shitbag ex who liked the idea of sleeping with men because it was taboo but wasn’t actually into men—and because his whole jam was using faux-progressivism to hide his abusive shit.

I worked with a woman who’s manager had 4 direct report supervisors, 3 male. Of course this manager asked her to get a birthday cake. She went to the most expensive bakery in town and charged a ridiculously expensive cake, bought fancy plates and forks at Hallmark and never got asked to do it again.

You are doing a public service, keep broadcasting! I wish to high heaven someone had told me this when I was a teenager.

Ok, here goes this warning I broadcast as often as possible when the super thin eye brow convo comes up:

She was leaving anyway, so he had pretty much zero influence over her career wise. She says flat out that it was consensual but later on she regretted it. Sorry, but we all do things we regret, if she was into it at the time then that’s what matters. I regret loosing my virginity to the girl I did (who pressured me…

Thank you! I wanted to say this but was too afraid of a pile-on. They had a consensual relationship!!!!!

Honestly, my first impression was that they removed her hair to look more “Other” (i.e. exotic and otherworldly) in the way African-heritage women are often depicted in fashion shoots. To me that’s not her look at all - she has more of a fresh, girl-next-door type of beauty - but they’re forever trying to style her…

A someone who does layout, I am unreservedly agreeing with your graphic designer. And it wasn’t even “lazy” really; it was just making room for text and . The alterntive would have been to reduce the image by a percentage, thus not having her face fill the page. Same thing with Beyonce’s crown—it was in the way.

While not an excuse whatsoever, my graphic designer hat gives me a feeling that (hopefully) this may have been a very lazy and dumb decision by the designers to make it easier to layout the image and copy.

I honestly didn’t know Japan had the death penalty.

Never discount the possibility that he may try to take us all with him.

Ugh. Too bad he just didn’t disappear forever after My So Called Life.

You can literally die any day at any moment by anything ranging from being hit by a bus or having a freak aneurysm. Save as you will, but if you’re missing out on things you’d like to do/experience now thinking you’d be able to do them in the future anyways, just be warned.

Seriously. You will never find anyone who ticks all the boxes of “correct progressive” bingo. Be willing to be friendly to and accept people who are not 100% your dream liberal. Pick your battles, guys.

I’ll chip in; make it $10,000,020.