This is correct and why the article says "most" won't need them, but some people might. If you're having problems, help is out there

Also, for vaginismus.

I guess it never occurred to me that there are people who don’t wanna eat Iowa State Fair foods just naturally

I don’t know what’s worse, this or the people who are defending it.

oh man, if stuffing my face is wrong, I don’t want to be right

Their silly rituals? What Iowan rituals are you picturing?

Stoked for Real Housewives of Des Moines sometime around 2030

I guess it seems to me like she has so much money that some things matter to her more than another few thousand dollars or whatever

it is her house, but she doesn’t live in it, since it’s a rental, so I don’t think it’s the same thing as defacing her own house in the traditional sense

Those eyelashes were just way too big and now she’s making FUN OF ME about a period that was really hard for me!!!!!!

Also, a black woman in my area asked her about the new agey brand of white privilege and Marianne was nice enough to cuss her out. So, no, in guessing her race emoting is not sincere.

He said I'm sorry to the woman he made uncomfortable. Why does he need to also apologize to everyone else?

Yeeep, just kicked out a roommate who wanted to use her personal tragedies as an excuse for ripping people off. She had trouble going to work because she has anxiety / depression. Oh, and also because she was out memorizing the local drink specials two to four times a week, that didn’t help. She never once paid me on…

I’m with you too. I can wear thongs and do if I need to (certain yoga pants where you’ll see panty lines) but they’re not my go-to and I couldn’t do it for 12 hours. I’d  get into my pjamas earlier to take them off.

Yeah it was, s/he cleared it up for me. I try hard to be hyper-vigilant about overstepping because I naturally talk waaaay too much and have a super nasty habit of taking over conversations that I really shouldn’t, so I gotta be extra careful! 

Oh haha thanks for clearing that up. I thought I was getting called out for taking up too much space. I am just one of those people who never shuts the fuck up, so that’s like... a huge personal failing of mine that I try hard to watch out for LOL. But anyway I’m glad it helped you, friendly internet stranger!

Yeaj ignorance is totally a factor, but for sure a lot of them want to stay ignorant no matter how hard you or I or God tries to teach them better. And a lot of people want to believe in a just world, in the American dream. They want to believe they have complete control over their lives, not that the accident of…

Honestly I don’t think you’re far off. I’ve met /grown up with / known a loooot of racists, and different types of racists, and not one of them was happy. Most of them were super angry they didn’t ever make it to college or some other perceived inadequacy and black and brown people were great scapegoats. 

Sorry if I co-opted something. If you know of somewhere where someone said it better (I’m sure it’s out there and I just haven’t seen it) I’d love it if you linked to it here.

Yeah this is really important. Poor white women can and do often get shafted unfortunately for the reason you mentioned, that other white people tend to cover that up, but there is definitely a point where people say “okay, that’s going too far”. There’s no such thing as too far when it comes to black and brown…