Well, other women have agreed with my assertion. And...

Hi, not sure if you want to keep talking about this, but here are more thoughts on me and my expectations.

I am a high school English teacher. I wanted to be a math teacher, but I couldn’t pass the brutally hard math teacher test.

Yeah, I know, so a single person would never take this hour off. Or if he/she did, the others at the office would think, “Who is he/she trying to fool?” I would feel bad if my coworker left for a paid sex break, especially with my office crush. Honestly, I can envision an office where an office hottie leaves the…

I attended a book discussion some years past, I forgot the name of the book. The thesis was that if women have more choices in when and how they have babies, the birth rates go up in low-birth nations and higher in high-birth nations.

I think to a certain extent, whenever anyone goes out with anyone, there is a desire that the other person will like you, and most people do enter dates with a certain level of expectation.

Yeah, thanks.

Yeah, you are right. Men do not really talk to each other about sex. In a sense, men are in fact more gentlemanly than pop culture will have us believe. There is a great passage in the Philip Roth novel, “the Human Stain,” where Roth says that men do not talk to each other about sex out of a fear of being envied,…

“When they finally get a chance to have sex with a real woman.” Wow, you sound amazing. But it also sounds like you are admitting that many men don’t have too many opportunities to uh, “perfect their craft.” And let’s face it, the craft of pleasing a woman is a lot harder than the craft of pleasing a man.

I am not that bothered by “there is no excuse for men to be bad at sex.” I just am getting so many responses, and I keep responding to them. I think that women would hate it if a man wrote, “There is so much information out there, there is no excuse for a woman to be bad at blowjobs, and just getting your man to come…

Why do I want to date? Yes, I am lonely. I really am lacking in any significant human connection. I think that my personal growth has been stunted by years of loneliness. I am 32, but in many ways an adolescent. I want someone to care for, and to care for me.

My longest relationship has been a year. I am 32 years old now.

You are correct. I have never sucked a penis. But in the only thread I started on this article, I state that sucking a penis is trickier and more physically demanding than licking a vagina.

And now I am wondering how in God’s name anyone can doubt that heterosexual vaginal sex is more physically demanding for men than for women.

yeah, wtf. Did Destiny’s Child cover it?

When I am “in the game” (trying to find a girlfriend) I often feel like a soldier during WWI running through no man’s land. There are a thousand ways for me to die. And the women are in the other trench firing their machine guns.

That should be “I do think that it is flatly false...” not “don’t”

If we are including the woman’s contribution, I don’t think that it is flatly false that “maintaining an erection” is the easiest part of heterosexual vaginal sex. I think that “lying there and getting fucked” is far easier than “maintaining an erection.” Keep in mind that a big part of “maintaining an erection” is…

A test drive of what? The dick sucking or the head grabbing?

Yeah, you’re right, well spotted! Getting and maintaining an erection is harder than you might imagine. And when I do have sex, it is certainly a harder endeavor for me than for her. Honestly, I really don’t think that this can be debated, it is so damn obvious. If you don’t care about my opinion because I don’t have…