The key to all of these strategies is giving your child some decision making power. If they don’t choose to donate or swap, you’re just confiscating the candy. That’s your right as a parent, but not the best way to build trust. On the other hand, if they choose to give it away, they’re learning to balance their hunger…

“The closeted perv has never come out as gay”

Because he very well may not be; being a child predator /= gay. Abusive sex is about power, not identity.

Sasha... I know.

I’m part of a quite a few blerdgirl collectives and folks are soooo freaking tired of the lame ass excuses for the lack of a spectrum of options when customizing. My phenotype isn’t a fucking outlier. Brown skin, brown eyes and dark curly hair isn’t RARE, so what gives?