It does not matter. You knew exactly what I meant when I said it originally.

what a shame

I took your quote and added cis to it, so it conformed to your suggestion. Even though you knew exactly what i was referring to anyways.

Yeah, see, I would like to know before the clothes come off.

“Most people are born physically, but I have never heard of anyone who was born as a fully grown cis woman.”

Should I have used female instead?

This is about physical attraction, I can tell if a obese person is obese, I can tell if a person who is taller than me is taller than me. But one can’t always tell if a trans person is trans.

Just ask.

because assholes unfortunately don’t always come with a label on their heads.

Yes, me wanting to only date a naturally physically born woman sure is crazy. I’m such a outlier. How will I ever find a non-obese woman who is shorter than me? Guess that is the risk of living.

Its a physical attraction issue.

Sure, but this is a physical attraction thing.

Yes, but the question is when do I find out.

so I don’t know what was said

I havent been looking through the comments so I don’t know what was said,

Some of the people here in the last discussion was very adamant that it was the Person A responsibility to ask if Person B was trans. That if they pass well enough, and you never asked, then its not deception when you find out, just because you never asked. “Well, you never asked” is not a defense.

Well good luck to you and your deceptions.

k.

if they are both physically and emotionally attractive to you...when you wouldn’t even know the difference unless told.

It ignored that part because I had already addressed that.