Many guys who do porn ALSO fund the filming and the tech skills to start websites to distribute it or form partnerships with Pornhub (the big shark in online porn distribution)

But what choice does that leave for the women who want to enact these fantasies? That she should inherently question any man who is willing to enact these fantasies with her, even if it’s her desire and her fantasy? Even if it comes from a place of trust after a lot of discussion and preparation? And what about the…

Please remember that kink shaming is not okay

we can’t just blithely accept the idea that all women have come to BDSM and rape fantasies in healthy, non-damaging ways

I’ve been raped. My soul and dignity are both doing just fine.

Lots of women have rape fantasies. Please remember that kink shaming is not okay, and neither acting in nor viewing videos simulating rape is an endorsement of actual rape.