We put it in the universe so hopefully it shall be so

It seems to me that the notion that female-coded things are infantilizing and not to be taken seriously is itself steeped in patriarchal ideals.

My husband once pissed me off before a flight. I stared out the window in silence for three hours, out the bus window for one hour and then through a 30 minute information session at the hotel, before finally continuing our fight once ensconced in our room. These people need to be sentenced to a rage repression…

Then make places that aren’t California and New York more attractive to move to. People flock to these places for a reason. Encourage arts and cultural exhibits, activities, etc. Have more jobs. Have things to do. And encourage the locals to be less dickish to people who aren’t white or straight or Christian (if…

Good for you. But many women would be miserable without their careers, not to mention the vulnerability of becoming financially dependent on your spouse - he leaves you and you’re fucked and your career will never recover from the years you stopped working. And most children do just fine with childcare and working…

my bf was a bridesmaid at our friend’s wedding and she would NOT fucking stop bitching about how she ‘lost the competition’ of the bridesmaids dress color. My friend wanted to do nude, somebody else suggested burgundy and majority won. Every time she brought up the need to find her dress, she started bitching and…

Childcare is not “paying someone to raise your child.” Parents raise their children whether or not they have outside help. And plenty of childcare providers are not indifferent about the children they care for.

Yeah, I’m an X-er, raised mostly by my grandmother, and I know a LOT of people who were consistently cared for by their grandparents. My situation was partly born of neglect, but it is absolutely factual that Boomers expected their parents to pitch in on childcare, the way families had for generations. But THEY are…

You took the words right out of my mouth.

Jeez wedding colors. Like, I’m sort of crafty and I get the differences in shades and color names , but I cannot listen to wedding talk about colors.

Definitely the best way to go about it. That’s good they sorted it out! I’m terrible at planning things and telling people what to do in any capacity, so I was lucky everything went off very smoothly. I got married at 31 as well. Good age! I hope it all goes swimmingly for you :)

OMGCOLOURS. I was just like, “my bridesmaids are wearing black.” People have surprisingly few follow-ups when you don’t start gushing about, like, seafoam tulle and dress fittings like they are expecting.

Just as absurd as a virgin birth, walking on water, multiplying fish and loaves of bread, transubstantiation, and rising from the dead in my opinion. Religions are absurd.

How long have you been carrying that chip on your shoulder? It seems heavy.

Ha, no way! That’s both cool and promising. <3 Brett Butler had such drug problem for so long, I’ve been hoping she eventually bounced back and started working again. I’d love ANYthing with her sensibilities right now.

It was! Called Those Amazing Animals if I remember correctly, on in the first half of the 80s. Pretty sure Priscilla made out with a chimpanzee at one point.

If you do not love marijuana, you are not doing it right.

i’m bad at the maths, what’s 1/3 of 77 cents on the dollar, exactly?

Don’t think its a coincidence that the Republican nominee is literally made up of Frito-Lay products. Chester Cheetah has already been tabbed to be head of the FDA in a Trump administration.

You guys. I figured out why I love Beast so much. He’s basically Toby Ziegler.