Hi, Jezzies! I posted last week wondering if anyone else had felt a pretty sharp decline in their mental health after getting engaged. Thank you so much for your feedback — it means so much to me. Unfortunately, it's been a pretty rough few days of panic attacks and crying jags. My fiance and my therapist have been…

Hi dearest Jezzies! I'm just exactly a month into my engagement, and I'm hoping you'll be able to reassure me: is it normal to feel so so so exposed and scared? I love my fiance dearly, and our entering into engagement was a completely mutual, long-discussed decision. I know I'm hurting him with my sudden reluctance…

What does the dad say at 0:39, when she still hasn't unwrapped the reins from her leg? I keep hearing it as "No, it's still there, Lumpy Emma!" Which I know can't be accurate, but I'm so in love with that idea. Little Lumpy Emma in her swishy snow pants!

I'm so glad somebody else said that. I'd voiced it to a friend earlier this week, only to be told I was jealous of her and/or prudish. I love me some porn! But I don't think she's super talented at it.

Not only did I make my Barbies have sex with each other, once it got me so riled up that I actually used Barbie's legs to masturbate.

That brought back a very strong memory...as a young white girl in suburban Maryland, I was crazy in love with American Girl dolls, and begged and begged to have Addy for my own. She was my constant companion, even though she looked nothing like me. I wrecked her head by trying to brush out her cornrows, but didn't…

He has indeed! Fingering is fantastic, and always makes me squirt. So I am lucky enough to have that kind of release, but it's not quite as cathartic a climax as a clitoral orgasm, at least in my experience. But hey, we've got plenty of time to play around and figure things out. Thank you for the suggestion!

Mhmm, being eaten out from behind is really what gets me closest. He loves when I sit on his face, so that's his little treat — it's not uncomfortable, and may be worth giving a shot! It's more moving to me than anything else, someone wanting to be that fully immersed in me. Thank you for the chair idea! As if I…

Hugs to you! I hope you have as supportive a partner as I do.

That was my fear — I didn't want to make things worse in the long run by relying on vibrators! But what turns out to be the case is that they're wonderful used everywhere BUT my clit, just relaxing me and warming me up for more stimulation. And generally I can squirt from a vibrator at the right angle. But moderation…

You speak the truth, sweet lady! A lot of it is me just not liking to give up control, feeling vulnerable if I have an orgasm in front of him. It's easier in a lot of ways (and sometimes more rewarding) just to focus on giving him pleasure. But then I guess I'm making him feel the same pressure to come that I shy away…

That actually sounds spot-on! And exploring is so delicious and fun to me, that's what's more meaningful than oral actually leading to anything. Several times it's gotten me close enough to finish off with masturbation, which is nice for both of us. Thank you for reminding me to break habits and shake things up!

No, you're completely right — and I am in therapy for anxiety and panic attacks. Thank you for suggesting it, not annoying at all! I just feel guilty that I can't respond to something that had been built up so hugely, something that my boyfriend likes doing. It is pressure, and I know it can't help the situation.

Feeling down and out about getting eaten out, Jezzies...