Earplugs - give in to the temptation. We have three cats - and one is a howler, and another scratches on the bedroom door between 5-6am. Husband is a deep sleeper, but not me. Earplugs are my life saver, seriously.

Yeah, please be careful. I think these guys are feeling empowered and I would hate for you to start getting harrassed. ~hug~ for what you did and reported.

I think they're unable to think logically at all about it. Christ, it's almost cultish.

I agree - I'll have nights sitting up late reading about serial killers and trying to understand 'them' - they're very 'othered' to me, an anomaly, rare, almost a different species. This shit? This makes me think 'how many 'normal' men do I walk past each day who think like this?' Looking over at my nerdy husband, who…

Oh it was an awesome feeling...glaring down at him as he stood by, watching his bus drive off without him. It was a coach trip, too, not just a jaunt about town. The driver told me he had just been released from prison so yeah...I think I dodged a real bullet there.

On your Mom? That's disgusting, you poor things both of you.

Not to mention how it all went wrong for men when women got the vote, and how women are completely inferior. I especially loved the part about how he would sit in a little tower above the concentration camp and lord over all the women he was going to starve to death. I wonder...would his own mother have been there?…

Well, I'm in New Zealand and it happens here all the time. Of course it's not worse in the US - look at those poor school girls who have been kidnapped and forced into marriage (presumably) in Nigeria. To some men, women are just objects/chattel, anywhere you go. You've just gotten lucky.

Good god I know. I have large breasts too (like, really large), I hate them to be honest. They're like a neon sign flashing 'harrass and stare at me'. I get stared at by some men as if I'm gagging for it (even if I'm holding hands with my husband), and sometimes by other women as if I'm a slut. After 25 years of it,…

So many incidences - 16 years old, wearing a mini-skirt at a party. My best friend holding one arm, a guy holding the other and trying to pull me toward him saying 'you're such a cocktease...'. Me hanging onto a doorframe in desperation. He gave up eventually; 17 years old - sitting at the back of a bus, man sits down…

Yah - Eric Harris was the same. He and Klebold were placed on a court-ordered course of some kind (too late at night to find the correct jargon) after being caught robbing a man's van. Harris was a shining pinnacle of correct behaviour and he came across as genuinely remorseful. The entire time he was writing about…

I read recently that psychopaths (presuming he is one) are excellent manipulators, and therapy can be worse for them - it teaches them the 'right way' to behave - possibly why the police found him so nice and polite and lovely. Shudder.

Um, non-virgins I think. In the 'us and them' scenario, we're the 'them'. Wizards are those who see virginal celibacy as a preferable state to live in? I dunno, that's what I've figured out so far.

Agreed - everyone needs a haven, a place to feel safe to express themselves. The net opens up so many doors...the one concern is the fanatics.

If you think you'd find fulfillment in sex alone, you're sadly mistaken. Perhaps, having placed sex on an unobtainable plateau you believe it is the be all and end all of human connection?

So basically, it's all hopeless and it's far easier to just give up and go on blaming women for..well, anything. One of the hardest things to do is assess yourself, and look at your faults and weakness head on, and then do something about it. Maybe there are some things you need to change, starting with the blame game…

Exactly...if you look at a still picture of him, he's not ugly or awkward. But then he opens his mouth and he becomes very ugly indeed. Very, very ugly and off-putting. Those videos (with the exception of the last maybe) seemed quite natural, so I can only presume that's how he acted not in front of the camera too.…

Dude, he looks at his reflection in the window of his car and goes on about how awesome he is. He sputters a bunch of shit about wanting the adoration that he deserves, and how everyone has to pay because he didn't get it. And then he goes and kills a bunch of people. Say this hadn't happened, and he had gotten a…

Yup, my husband is a non-muscly white boy, getting a bit of a podgy tummy too. I love ~him~, not how he effing looks. And we're not rich, hell we don't even have a car right now. He's kind, loyal and after the crap I've been reading about all this I am so goddamn grateful to have this relationship. Shit.

But it's not about partying. I just knew I never wanted children, even when I was young. I've never been a partier - I read, garden, go to work, see my friends. My husband and I just don't want kids. It's a bit of misconception that it's young, selfish people who don't want to give up the single/crazy/selfish life.…