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Anyone transitioning from a culture where women are property to one where they are free, full citizens needs to have training. It isn’t to stigmatize them, but to help them fit into their new homeland. (There is, after all, an industry of “culture shock” training for people who move to new countries.)

People don’t turn into cheaters over time. If your husband cheats on you, he was always the kind of person who would cheat.

By treating infidelity as a question of morality the author conveniently inverts the argument in order to create an excuse for the cheater. This ploy, in essence, is “we don’t let antiquated notions of morality imprison us in other parts of our lives, why have we held on to it here?” It turns the victim (the spouse