Wait, no mention of Frankenjesus? My partner was still upset about it this morning.

That’s amazing!! Congratulations!!!

We can call them out for it, and their response will be to thank us for the compliment.

Sounds like he Wisesteined up, if you’ll pardon the terrible pun.

So sorry, please be careful and stay safe. Hugs!

What an awful situation to be in. This is scary, and you seem like you’re handing this like a boss, so be proud of that. I don’t have any advice for you that you haven’t already addressed (police, legal assistance, self care) other than to say that given everything else going on with public exposure of sexual…

here is the thing though, even if you let it drop in hopes it all stops and he is important in your field he can and probably will still try to fuck with your career. Its the Weinstien she’s difficult to work with situation, you didn’t peruse it so you have no proof, he gets to live on with stories of the crazy woman…

Good for you.

I wish you well. If he’s lawyered up, it may be even more beneficial to you to seek out your own legal counsel, especially to discuss other issues that may arise if something is pursued or if any of these investigations move to charges. I have a feeling his lawyer told him to be on his best behavior right now. Also, I…

Jane’s “advice” is nearly always terrible, and she should feel bad. She also says that LW3 is a liar, because she isn’t good at asserting herself.

Good for you.

police don’t like responding to DV for a reason, and its because if you aren’t ready to come to terms with the fact that your asshole is a legit asshole, you usually defend them.

Please do not tell the first LW that she is bananas for following a lifetime of training that she should be nice, not make waves, and only think about the needs of others. Women get that message their entire lives. It has become trendy to say that women who don’t report harassment are responsible for what happens to…

Can I afford to take him at his word that he meant it all to be a joke and had no idea I would take it this way and wouldn’t do it again?

Yeah, the fact that he drove to her local post offices to mail the packages is what makes this even more concerning. Sounds like he’s stalking her and going through quite a bit of trouble to do it.

I would encourage the first letter writer to read Gavin de Becker’s book “The Gift of Fear.” He has some good advice there about dealing with inappropriate and/or stalker-ish attention. Some of it is counterintuitive (for instance, he argues that restraining orders do more harm than good), but he explains his…

He sent sex toys and a douche? Holy fucking creepy stalker, Batman! Call the po-po and ask for a restraining order. Also, there is no fucking way he told his wife what he sent. I’d mail that shit back to his wife with a note saying her husband is a goddamn psycho and that she should be aware of his creeping. And that…

Just to echo what has been said here: GET YOURSELF ON HIGH ALERT, dildo in the mail lady. There is something wrong with this guy and he is a potential threat. Forget what you knew about him, he’s revealing his true self now.

Only a douche would send a woman a douche, even as a joke.

Holy shit. I don’t always agree with what Jane says in these columns but CALL THE POLICE, DO IT NOW.