I kind of struggle with the part after the bold though. The men who pay as “beloved husbands.”

But here are some other things I know. Laws against sex work are used to control and punish already marginalized women. They are tools for enforcing poverty and state violence. Prostitution is illegal, and rape is still rampant and unpunished. Furthermore, male sexuality does not thrive on violence; it often…

I think you might have it backwards. I’m guessing that there are certain families who stress conventional beauty norms and conservatism. There are lots of ways to manipulate your “attractiveness” - diet, clothes, and makeup. I’m guessing a conservative family is going to expect their daughters to present themselves in…

Me too. Sometimes I question if I’m really bisexual or if I’ve just internalized our society’s presentation of women’s bodies as equal to sex. I’ve never had the chance to be with a woman so I don’t know for sure. It’s just easier to be with men as there are far more opportunities to do so.

Yeah, me and Cindymoo are what they call “lipstick lesbians”. Both of us are 100% attracted to women, and get a lot of attention from men, with constant comments that we’re “too pretty to be lesbians” or whatever. (I don’t see it in myself, but Cindymoo is pretty damn hot.) I’ve got long hair, good skin, a petite…

Anecdotal, but as a bisexual woman who had no trouble attracting male attention, I STOPPED conforming to heterosexual beauty norms so much BECAUSE I realized women were an option for me, and men are the worst.

In my (bar employment) experience, bitches also be rill nasty. The best was when somebody shoved a pint glass in the toilet, stomped on it until it shattered and was hopelessly wedged, and then like 50 more ladies pooped on it until poo was level with the rim. I literally removed the toilet, put it in the dumpster,…

Please contact the Portland po-po if you have any information regarding the poo poo.

That’s why we invited you!

So you’re saying it’s George Banks?

Every Portland needs a pooper.

SO MUCH THIS. You’re telling me that for centuries women were denied basic rights and treated like children with tits because of our feeble lady brains, but we’re supposed suddenly somehow take care of house, home and their incompetent asses? FUCK THAT NOISE.

stop dating and marrying men who are not adults.

This was my question- were the men who wouldn’t know how to make a bed (?!?!?!?) like this before getting married? My assumption would be that they were, and in that case, grow the fuck up and learn how to put sheets on a mattress. That said, I am not married so what do I know.

I think this is a huge part of it. I’ve been compulsively (like an idiot) reading a subreddit full of men caught up in the hack. Lots and lots of them seem to have some complex psychological shit going on where they feel that they should get to keep information from their wives that their wives might use to decide to…

I agree with this 100%. It just seems like misogyny to me? “I want my wife to raise our kids and care for me emotionally. She doesn’t seem to want sex with me, ergo, I can go get sex wherever I want with whomever I want and not tell her. Because she’s a wife and mother! What does she need sex for?”

Yeah, that’s the stuff that drives me insane with cheater justifications. While they’re out trolling for side action it never occurs to them that their spouse should have the same option. But then again, I don’t think they want their spouse to have the same option. I think they get off on the wife at home with the…

I SOOOO hope she cheated on him too. I’ll bet he would be the type who would cry about it and say things like “How could you dooo thaaat!”